So, this lady who works for this NGO has been giving me subtle hints that she wants us to meetup away from the office sphere whenever i deliver some goods and come for the cheque, but any man over 30 knows for a fact not all puthy is worth the time so, i have been yapping away telling her we will do coffee sometime soon as a way of not telling her off to her face i am not interested in hanging!!,… NOW… yesterday when i passed by their premise to find out if they need whatever it is i supply them on a monthly basis… since she is the contact person, she proceeds to tell me that they got a new supplier… mmmh!
I took it in strides and left dint ask too many questions… since i thought to myself maybe the quality of my goods had dwindled… then at 10pm… i get a message from her telling me… nilikataa kahawa yake so she had to fix me!o_Oo_O… so apparently this heffa felt i needed a kick in the nuts because i have been avoiding coffee date with her… We as men get rejected 10,000 times in a day but we dont take prisoners… unless you are that boss wa ile bank who uses his office to get puthy… Uko ndani ya jav you tell the lady hapo kando… kindly fungua window hewa iflow… lady frowns at you since she thinks you are breaking ice to get her number, while on the real its her cheap perfume that is choking you up.
unafika kwa office ya client, you talk to the secretary hapo reception… lady ana kunja sura thinking you want to get her digits, while on the real you just want to talk to the boss about biz and leave to your next clients place…
Women think they are all about their looks… so if you reject them… they feel they are ugly… 
Hehehe…unga imemwagika kwasababu ulikataa kumwaga ndani
Pole bro. Mungu atakusaidia tu usijali. Lakini unless huyo lady ni mnyang ama mchafu kupindukia, rudi tu hatua chache nyuma. Fungulia huyo mmama kanafasi kidogo umpeleke coffee halafu umpe haki yake. Ukiona mwanmke akifikia kukuanikia, huwa imeshindikana. Mimi nikiitiwa huwa ninajitahidi iwezekenavyo.
Kijana i am not going to bang someone just to secure a tender… hio ufisi ya wasee wa 20s nilishapita bana… other deals will comeup…
talkers mna bahati sana, yaani wapewa biz na utamu juu yake wakataa? there is definitely something that am not doing right, hebu rusha digits zake pale inbox nijaribu kuona ubabe wangu umefika wapi
Hata sijasema uchukue tender. Lenga hio stori ya tender. Usichukue hi tender. Lakini usimnyime mti bure unless amechapa tu sana.
Pole @Nyadist , mimi in my line of work I get more respect when I skip random puthy
Sema polepole
Pole, move on. You’ll get a better deal. Don’t sex at work.
Very true, sometimes you can’t just bang anything in a skirt and to complicate matters, you are in business with her company.
If you had had sex with her ungetangazwa hii Nairobi. Madame wa hiyo ofisi wangekuwa wanakuona wanajua ni nini ulifanya.
@Nyadist …I respect your principles. You dont just go around f*cking anything with a skirt and a heartbeat. Other doors will open.
Guess you’ve never heard of “schmoozing”, business lunches etc. You should have just taken her cordially and maintained that business relationship. Then hinted to her that you are happily married or in a committed relationship.
As an aside. Whenever you walk into offices, businesses etc to see the boss, be extra nice to their secretaries, staff people. What people don’t know is that the comments from the secretaries, staff etc to the boss that make the ultimate decisions maybe be swayed in your favor by your pleasant interactions with them in the lobby or hallways.
I break bread, the watchie, secretaries even the the store clerk all get something… I hate dealing with women who develop emotional attachments over business.
Way to go man. I salute you. Not worth it. Cut your losses (if any) and let other doors open for you.
It’s just not worth it, acha akwende na hiyo tender yake. If you’ve been supplying top quality products then chances are in a couple of months they’ll be looking for you.
Rejection works both ways, I see you are doing well. Keep it up!
A man of conviction. Good for you
Most women don’t know how to handle rejection. It becomes very hard for her to reconcile why you aren’t interested while her inbox, whatsapp and messages are overflowing with dicks.
Hell hath no fury like a woman rejected.