WOMEN vs MATURITY
Your father married your mother when she was 18 - 24 years,
Your mother raised the family, supporting your father’s purpose for you to become what you are today.
Your father never looked for maturity but he looked for a woman who will submit and be part of his purpose.
Men today have become a contraption when it comes to choosing a wife. You will hear them say things like
“I want a woman who is mature”
“I want a woman like my mother”
But here is the point:
Women never mature. If you are looking for a mature woman, you will live a desperate, regretful life forever.
You are looking for a mature woman because you are still immature and entrapped in your mother’s bosom yet your mother was married when she was 18 - 24 years old.
The other point is that modern liberalisation and feminism has pushed women into the career path rather than the family path, due to this dysgenic conditioning, women find themselves on the wall at 30 years, without a family, without babies and without a feminine future, therefore they conflate statements like
" a real man dates a mature woman"
" a real man never fears a powerful and independent woman"
So, these statements are meant to entice a man’s ego. While a man who ignores such derogatory seductions, is labelled ‘weak, broke and a loser’ - but which man wants to be called a loser? So he goes ahead to ignore the failures of such a woman and marries her then conforms or convinces himself with words like
“I married a strong, mature woman, - so, I am stronger than her and stronger than all other men…”
“See, I married a woman who is a CEO of a bank, so, I am stronger…”
No, you are not stronger, you are a weak man who was enticed and manipulated into a relationship that doesn’t suit you.
You know very well the relationship is a mess but you put on a brave face to hoodwink the public that you are in the world’s most stable marriage.
You are not.
You are a pet.
You are a marionette.
And I, Amerix will not stop reminding you that, your first encounter with your woman is what sets the tone of that relationship.
I will never stop reminding you about this. - Defining your boundaries on the first date.
Listen,
Women will never mature in marriage. She is the same girl that was 18 years of age. Her thinking is the same.
A 20-year-old woman reasons alike like a 49-year-old PhD professor of nutrition.
Their jealousy is the same.
Their demons are the same.
What differentiates them is how her father raised her.
Look at you mother,
Your father sees her the same way she saw her 30 years ago. To him, your mother is still the girl he met in the village paths.
Try and eavesdrop on them when they are alone, you will see how your father pets her and tickles her as she melts in her girlish mannerism.
Men, don’t look for maturity in women. It doesn’t exist. Date a woman who will plug into your purpose while obeying your command.
You must raise your masculine frame so that she can sink into it.
The more she sinks into your frame, the more she becomes girlish and feminine and this is where many men fail. They expect their women to behave like their mothers to them.
Your woman will never be your mother. She will only be like your daughter but never like your mother.
You, the man, must first be her leader before she becomes your disciple.
If you expect her to be like your mother, you are simply signalling to her that you are an immature boy who still wants to suckle.
Once she learns that you are clinging on her with your neediness, she first pampers you, feeds you like a pig then tethers you on her leash.
After tethering you, she cunningly baits you, after which she chokes and smothers you into smithereens destroying you completely then monkey branches to a better higher value man.
That’s feminine nature.
Finally, there is nothing like compatibility. It doesn’t exist.
There is no compatibility in relationships. Just raise your frame and she will naturally fall into it. Failure to do this will lead to resentment from her.
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