the thing is,i kinda know its an exploitative arrangement…but i find it hard to say no to girls.nilikua napea doris lunch yangu daily in primary school
.my bad …my bad…didnt mean to generalize…but its quit common in most working places…and the few who are ‘independent’ have to remind us(men) how brave they are…
Shukran…starting right now…ata nilikuwa nawaoganaizia doci flani beste yangu anawapea sick offs…sai wananicall niwaunganishe na the doctor but nimelenga calls
azanda omwami
You are so sweet man.:D:D:D
Pick the call. Tell them it’s gonna cost them 10k and just maybe they will start fixing their own mess.
:D:D:D…i dread this statement…back in college i had a girl dump me ‘coz i was tooooooo sweeeet’…i gez ni sampuli ya @junkie na @PrimalFear wenye wanaamini masculinity is treatinng women like trash…
Juzi my 7 yr old son complained that a gal called Mutheu has been eating most of his lunch. :D:D
I am still conflicted on what to advice him over here…if it was one of my daughters I would have told them to shove the gal and stand up for themselves.
Enyewe equality is a delicate issue.
No no no…
Being firm and decisive doesn’t mean you treat us like trash. You just need to set boundaries.
Bs…I’ve worked with lot’s of women and learning to say no goes a long way when dealing with them.
Sawa Mr nice guy. We get all the vagina while you wank yourself to sleep
very delicate indeed…but itabidi uongezee lunch ya keveseh ndio ashibe na agawe bado:cool:
buda kama hunanga kakitu ya kubuy drinks usijipee selfconsolation ati wewe ni alpha male.ni kakitu huna boss.Na midnight nilienda home juu niko na brain ya kujua monday ni working day so i need some sleep…
In a give and take transaction wewe ulinunua drinks na kulipa uber halafu ukapata nini in return?
i buy drinks for friends(women included) for the thrill of it…si ati ndio niget pussy…huwezi elewa kama wewe ni mkono gumu kabaila…i probably feel good when i do something good to someone.is that abnormal?
i have got other social ways/skills of gettin laid…being nice doesnt mean i dont get some…The kind of ‘mr nice guy’ that girls resent is the kind that overdoes it…
White knight in shinning armour, why did you come to this street to vent then?
Yeah what @King Mswati IV said. Anyways in an office where there are a lot of women it can be sometimes a inconvenient especially when the said woman is your superior and unfortunately awe wale wa kuhold grudges. Watu dunia nzima hulia ooh, gender equality and other crap however that can never be the case, you know why? These are two very different animals and expecting a woman to behave emotionally similar to a man in every situation is down right stupid.
Way forward grasshopper is to be a man, simple but true. When your lady boss or colleagues wako na mood swings, don’t cry and complain stand your ground soldier keep calm and be a man. Ikifika wakati wanataka mrushiane mdomo na kubishana kama wamama, be a man. Ukiona anapewa “special favours” usikimbie na mushene kila mahali, do your work & be a man.
Being a man is being responsible, doing your job & not being a boot licker. Never ever try being your bosses pet, this only works out for ladies na ukajaribu na a lady boss & it works then be sure that the moment mtakosana tu kidogo (it will happen) hiyo kazi utatamani kuiwacha na ndio hautapata ingine at that moment. Don’t waste time looking for validation, attention & affection at work, instead be a guy that people respect and the affection will come naturally. BE A MAN.
its coz the entitlement has gone overboard to a bad taste
The first mistake you made is befriending them ulijiingiza kwa shimo we mwenyewe
:D:D:D. You are not one of them