Women are this desperate for marriage?

[Hydra]

I have never entertained dating a co-worker, but things are currently fvcked up. So an assignment became necessary in our 2 branches (Nakuru and Kisumu) sometime in September and I was sent to handle business on that front. I didn’t know that in another department there were other things to be done, so to make it cost effective, I was sent with this lady from the other department. She is 28 years old and not married, at least according to HR records and what she told me. We were driven by a company car to Nakuru first, arrived there about 11 AM and went direct to work in our various departments and assignments. Proximity to her unveils the kind of beauty this lass is blessed with. Kwanza her ass is quite big, but not the size of akina Sharon that you guys post here. Then her waist is small and she has a dark complexion and a perfect teeth set that’s very inviting. Our journey to Nakuru had nothing to write home about, but we talked the whole way mostly about work and the prospects of the company in the coming year. We rarely interact with her dept so this was like a moment to break ice, plus being in the company of the company driver means not a lot can be said.

After work we were taken to the hotel, each to their room and I linked up with her at dinner time. She was dressed very elegantly, and having this time off-site and with time on our side and this freedom, we talked a lot. Driver was not with us, alikuwa amepewa pesa yeye ‘akajipanga’ (which is some discrimination based on rank but then its life, and also allows him to save some money if he wishes to spend less than the allocation). Got to know her more personally besides what I know about work. Then we retired each to their room to sleep. She called me the following morning, asked we meet at breakfast so that we can sync our time to be picked for the office and all that. All went well and on the second day by 12 pm I was through with my work. Done and dusted, now ready for Kisumu. She wasn’t done yet, because her work includes testing the user side of what I was working on but we had agreed we will go together to Kisumu. By 4 PM she is done. We could easily have left but company policy —> no night travel for staff on company missions. So we will stay over this night then leave the following day. We have more time, we have bonded more by this time. I can feel a wind of familiarity reigning because even as we were working on the second day, we kept on checking on each other, but we kept it official. No lines crossed, only funny emojis and all that.

We went to the hotel. This time after dinner we head to a nearby club and dance a bit to wear the night out. In the dance I manage to wrap my hands around her and she grinds her ass against my crotch, which makes me very hard. Later we find our way back to the hotel. She asks what am upto, and since I want to stay cordial, I tell her I will watch a movie and sleep. She opts into my movie plan, so it’s to my room first. I can’t concentrate when she first removes her jacket and she is left with a sleeveless top. I struggle to find which movie to open, ending up with TOPGUN MAVERICK. We watch a bit, but the fingers have overtaken the movie watching and she is also responding with small moans. After a while she has taken control of the game and we bonk like rabbits.

The following day we leave for Kisumu and we only look at each other with some evil satisfaction. In Kisumu we stay for 2 days and we shag like nobody’s business. We come back to Nairobi thereafter and we have an affair that’s running chini ya maji. As we progress, this lady tells me how much she loves me and how much she would love to spend her life with me. The paradox is that she know am married with a kid.
She has repeated this wish and everytime she becomes bolder. What surprises me;

1. She has been texting me furiously, even trying to video call me when am at home. One Saturday I ignored her calls since morning since I wasn’t working and she texted asking if I am with another woman(apart from missus). Like am cheating on my two women, really???

2. Everytime am flirting and tell her how sweet she is between the sheets, she has been responding by asking me to own her, to make it official. In November I was rushing home in Nyeri to see my old folks and she asked to accompany me ‘so that I won’t get bored’. I cleverly avoided it, but when I spoke to her from home, she asked to say hi to my mum, which again I ducked. She wants me to make it official, doesn’t mind being the second. Actually, since I had told her how old my boy is, she bought him a toy and gave it to me because “he is also her kid”. One woman is handful, can’t imagine two.

3. Recently she told me "she wants to make me very happy and help me take my career to the next level’. I felt like asking if I come across as unhappy but thought that would upset her.

Wadau, are women this desperate for marriage?? In your view, what am I dealing with? What am I not seeing? What is the end goal here and how can I navigate to safety, taking all factors into consideration? How long can I safely juggle the balls concurrently?

[Azor_Ahai]

Women are desperate for marriage…especially those with BAGGAGE.

[Yuletapeli]

@Hydra

I have never entertained dating a co-worker, but things are currently fvcked up. So an assignment became necessary in our 2 branches (Nakuru and Kisumu) sometime in September and I was sent to handle business on that front. I didn’t know that in another department there were other things to be done, so to make it cost effective, I was sent with this lady from the other department. She is 28 years old and not married, at least according to HR records and what she told me. We were driven by a company car to Nakuru first, arrived there about 11 AM and went direct to work in our various departments and assignments. Proximity to her unveils the kind of beauty this lass is blessed with. Kwanza her ass is quite big, but not the size of akina Sharon that you guys post here. Then her waist is small and she has a dark complexion and a perfect teeth set that’s very inviting. Our journey to Nakuru had nothing to write home about, but we talked the whole way mostly about work and the prospects of the company in the coming year. We rarely interact with her dept so this was like a moment to break ice, plus being in the company of the company driver means not a lot can be said.

After work we were taken to the hotel, each to their room and I linked up with her at dinner time. She was dressed very elegantly, and having this time off-site and with time on our side and this freedom, we talked a lot. Driver was not with us, alikuwa amepewa pesa yeye ‘akajipanga’ (which is some discrimination based on rank but then its life, and also allows him to save some money if he wishes to spend less than the allocation). Got to know her more personally besides what I know about work. Then we retired each to their room to sleep. She called me the following morning, asked we meet at breakfast so that we can sync our time to be picked for the office and all that. All went well and on the second day by 12 pm I was through with my work. Done and dusted, now ready for Kisumu. She wasn’t done yet, because her work includes testing the user side of what I was working on but we had agreed we will go together to Kisumu. By 4 PM she is done. We could easily have left but company policy —> no night travel for staff on company missions. So we will stay over this night then leave the following day. We have more time, we have bonded more by this time. I can feel a wind of familiarity reigning because even as we were working on the second day, we kept on checking on each other, but we kept it official. No lines crossed, only funny emojis and all that.

We went to the hotel. This time after dinner we head to a nearby club and dance a bit to wear the night out. In the dance I manage to wrap my hands around her and she grinds her ass against my crotch, which makes me very hard. Later we find our way back to the hotel. She asks what am upto, and since I want to stay cordial, I tell her I will watch a movie and sleep. She opts into my movie plan, so it’s to my room first. I can’t concentrate when she first removes her jacket and she is left with a sleeveless top. I struggle to find which movie to open, ending up with TOPGUN MAVERICK. We watch a bit, but the fingers have overtaken the movie watching and she is also responding with small moans. After a while she has taken control of the game and we bonk like rabbits.

The following day we leave for Kisumu and we only look at each other with some evil satisfaction. In Kisumu we stay for 2 days and we shag like nobody’s business. We come back to Nairobi thereafter and we have an affair that’s running chini ya maji. As we progress, this lady tells me how much she loves me and how much she would love to spend her life with me. The paradox is that she know am married with a kid.
She has repeated this wish and everytime she becomes bolder. What surprises me;

1. She has been texting me furiously, even trying to video call me when am at home. One Saturday I ignored her calls since morning since I wasn’t working and she texted asking if I am with another woman(apart from missus). Like am cheating on my two women, really???

2. Everytime am flirting and tell her how sweet she is between the sheets, she has been responding by asking me to own her, to make it official. In November I was rushing home in Nyeri to see my old folks and she asked to accompany me ‘so that I won’t get bored’. I cleverly avoided it, but when I spoke to her from home, she asked to say hi to my mum, which again I ducked. She wants me to make it official, doesn’t mind being the second. Actually, since I had told her how old my boy is, she bought him a toy and gave it to me because “he is also her kid”. One woman is handful, can’t imagine two.

3. Recently she told me "she wants to make me very happy and help me take my career to the next level’. I felt like asking if I come across as unhappy but thought that would upset her.

Wadau, are women this desperate for marriage?? In your view, what am I dealing with? What am I not seeing? What is the end goal here and how can I navigate to safety, taking all factors into consideration?

Marriage means a lot to women…it’s the main goal. Ukitaka aingie box haraka upesi just promise her marriage…

[Nyadist]

Men in plantation get puthy whipped in an instance… i feel kuna parts umeskip… kama the part you told her negative personal shiet about your wife so as to get puthy. Ndio maana ako bold… It wont end well for you.

[Wanaruona]

Patia @Karoga number ame umia ya kutosha na hii upuzi ya MGAYTOW Chieth.

[Hydra]

@Nyadist

Men in plantation get puthy whipped in an instance… i feel kuna parts umeskip… kama the part you told her negative personal shiet about your wife so as to get puthy. Ndio maana ako bold… It wont end well for you.

Far from it. I have never spoken about my family with her, in fact it took long had siku moja she asked “why is it that you don’t tell me about them yet they are part of me?” Told her it’s not her business, and she got a bit frustrated coz according to her, we are in one family.

She wouldn’t have known even the kids age if I had not stood by a kids store to enquire about a certain toy. What I may have skipped is that she bought a better bigger toy, more costly than what she had seen me window shop.

[Investorde]

Women are desperate for marriage but ukiwaoa they change completely. They will behave like they were forced into it.

[captain_obvious]

Ndio ile kitu sometimes I avoid some bitches, ata kama najua they have fire poosy. Una-project huko mbele unaona hii itakua kisirani tupu. Sasa kama wewe ulijiingiza kwa ngori. From the sound of it, she’s just warming up. Huyu ataanza kutext wife wako very soon, since in her mind they’re co-wives.

[LeVoyeur]

@Hydra

I have never entertained dating a co-worker, but things are currently fvcked up. So an assignment became necessary in our 2 branches (Nakuru and Kisumu) sometime in September and I was sent to handle business on that front. I didn’t know that in another department there were other things to be done, so to make it cost effective, I was sent with this lady from the other department. She is 28 years old and not married, at least according to HR records and what she told me. We were driven by a company car to Nakuru first, arrived there about 11 AM and went direct to work in our various departments and assignments. Proximity to her unveils the kind of beauty this lass is blessed with. Kwanza her ass is quite big, but not the size of akina Sharon that you guys post here. Then her waist is small and she has a dark complexion and a perfect teeth set that’s very inviting. Our journey to Nakuru had nothing to write home about, but we talked the whole way mostly about work and the prospects of the company in the coming year. We rarely interact with her dept so this was like a moment to break ice, plus being in the company of the company driver means not a lot can be said.

After work we were taken to the hotel, each to their room and I linked up with her at dinner time. She was dressed very elegantly, and having this time off-site and with time on our side and this freedom, we talked a lot. Driver was not with us, alikuwa amepewa pesa yeye ‘akajipanga’ (which is some discrimination based on rank but then its life, and also allows him to save some money if he wishes to spend less than the allocation). Got to know her more personally besides what I know about work. Then we retired each to their room to sleep. She called me the following morning, asked we meet at breakfast so that we can sync our time to be picked for the office and all that. All went well and on the second day by 12 pm I was through with my work. Done and dusted, now ready for Kisumu. She wasn’t done yet, because her work includes testing the user side of what I was working on but we had agreed we will go together to Kisumu. By 4 PM she is done. We could easily have left but company policy —> no night travel for staff on company missions. So we will stay over this night then leave the following day. We have more time, we have bonded more by this time. I can feel a wind of familiarity reigning because even as we were working on the second day, we kept on checking on each other, but we kept it official. No lines crossed, only funny emojis and all that.

We went to the hotel. This time after dinner we head to a nearby club and dance a bit to wear the night out. In the dance I manage to wrap my hands around her and she grinds her ass against my crotch, which makes me very hard. Later we find our way back to the hotel. She asks what am upto, and since I want to stay cordial, I tell her I will watch a movie and sleep. She opts into my movie plan, so it’s to my room first. I can’t concentrate when she first removes her jacket and she is left with a sleeveless top. I struggle to find which movie to open, ending up with TOPGUN MAVERICK. We watch a bit, but the fingers have overtaken the movie watching and she is also responding with small moans. After a while she has taken control of the game and we bonk like rabbits.

The following day we leave for Kisumu and we only look at each other with some evil satisfaction. In Kisumu we stay for 2 days and we shag like nobody’s business. We come back to Nairobi thereafter and we have an affair that’s running chini ya maji. As we progress, this lady tells me how much she loves me and how much she would love to spend her life with me. The paradox is that she know am married with a kid.
She has repeated this wish and everytime she becomes bolder. What surprises me;

1. She has been texting me furiously, even trying to video call me when am at home. One Saturday I ignored her calls since morning since I wasn’t working and she texted asking if I am with another woman(apart from missus). Like am cheating on my two women, really???

2. Everytime am flirting and tell her how sweet she is between the sheets, she has been responding by asking me to own her, to make it official. In November I was rushing home in Nyeri to see my old folks and she asked to accompany me ‘so that I won’t get bored’. I cleverly avoided it, but when I spoke to her from home, she asked to say hi to my mum, which again I ducked. She wants me to make it official, doesn’t mind being the second. Actually, since I had told her how old my boy is, she bought him a toy and gave it to me because “he is also her kid”. One woman is handful, can’t imagine two.

3. Recently she told me "she wants to make me very happy and help me take my career to the next level’. I felt like asking if I come across as unhappy but thought that would upset her.

Wadau, are women this desperate for marriage?? In your view, what am I dealing with? What am I not seeing? What is the end goal here and how can I navigate to safety, taking all factors into consideration?

Kijana Hydra hapa umejicheza kaka, you let your small head control you like a slave, ona matokeo. Tumesema hapa mara ngapi Office colleague lays hapana, you don’t shit where you eat, heshimu ofisi. Afadhali ungeongea na directory wa lanye kama @cortedivoire ama @Silverback83 wakuokolee kama ilikuwa mbaya hivo.
Now comes the akward tension pale ofisini, calls might get worse, stalking etc. Hii kuwa mkali sana and end it mara hiyo lakini wapi najua utadai raundi za kumaliza. Na uombe bibi asijue akijua you as good as just taking the other bitch as a ‘wife’ mfuko umaliswe vizuri.

[Hydra]

One more thing, other being a tigress in bed she has a craziness that’s addictive; like there’s this day we meet at the company watering(dispenser) point and she looks around, nobody in sight, and grabs me almost forcefully for a very deep kiss. CCTV is on of course. I find that crazy but quite likeable regardless of the risk it carries. She is also that crazy when we are out there, even in a restaurant till sometimes I fear someone who knows me will be surprised what am up to.This thing is really fvcked up as I said above there.

[mikel]

Hapa umejiaribia…shes too desperate…huyu ukimwacha atapiga kelele sana pale job…ama hata atatafuta bibi akuaribie boma

[Sura_Ngumu]

28 years. Mambo yako iko hapo.

[ombudsman]

Hapo in oxytocin na dopamine zinamchanganya tu. Cortisol ikishakick in utatii.

[epoch]

Next ni mimba. Vile elders wamesema, stop that immediately wife asijue. Chunga your marriage.
Workmate is a no. Utaharibu unga na boma.
Btw, which level are you at work?

[Baresi]

@Hydra

One more thing, other being a tigress in bed she has a craziness that’s addictive; like there’s this day we meet at the company watering(dispenser) point and she looks around, nobody in sight, and grabs me almost forcefully for a very deep kiss. CCTV is on of course. I find that crazy but quite likeable regardless of the risk it carries. She is also that crazy when we are out there, even in a restaurant till sometimes I fear someone who knows me will be surprised what am up to.This thing is really fvcked up as I said above there.

Nothing exciting about that behaviour. Have some self-control and set boundaries

[Titty_Twister]

Hehe, i feel like I know you. Is that you Wandwi? Kijana ya mama wacha uwekelewe mimba ndio utaamka from hii upuuus you’re currently entertaining. Unamkula DF?

[Hydra]

@epoch

Next ni mimba. Vile elders wamesema, stop that immediately wife asijue. Chunga your marriage.
Workmate is a no. Utaharibu unga na boma.
Btw, which level are you at work?

Departmental head level.
She works at a lower cadre, but in another department

[Hydra]

@LeVoyeur

Tumesema hapa mara ngapi Office colleague lays hapana, you don’t shit where you eat, heshimu ofisi.

I have been one of the biggest advocates of this mantra, but I was caught unawares and things progressed very fast spontaneously.

[Hydra]

@Titty Twister

Hehe, i feel like I know you. Is that you Wandwi? Kijana ya mama wacha uwekelewe mimba ndio utaamka from hii upuuus you’re currently entertaining. Unamkula DF?

Nimekuwa namkula na CD save for the first night and some other day I was working late then she passed by my office. One thing led to another when we got to the car and a few minutes later she was sitting on my hard abdalla

[Muthafari]

@Hydra

Departmental head level.
She works at a lower cadre, but in another department

Vyenye @Baresi amesema. Boundaries