So today I get an order to deliver some iron sheets and few bags of cement . This lady calls me … Kufika Kwake they live in a home compound …wazazi wa bwana wamejenga kando naye kijana na bibi yake wamejenga kando … From a quick observation I realize they are extending few rooms Kwa nyumba ya the son … The lady who called is the sons wife.
The son is not around ni kdf , I guess Ako na huko somali on a mission nanikama fom yakuuza makaa imejipa …anyway the lady tells me her Mum is the one who is paying … As in kijana trusts his mother so much he can’t trust his wife so pesa inatumiwa mamake who overseas the finances are utilised accordingly plus receipt lazima niwache Kwa the mum to keep them safe till the son returns to see all expenses … My question is what’s the role of a wife if u can’t trust her to manage such a simple task ? U trust the mum to manage your family affairs not even your dad … Au ni son mother bond
a man [or even a woman, I am meant to understand] can have a new wife every day.
how many mothers can they have though?
why the fuck is this even up for debate?
Or that the lady works, and since mother is at home, she manages the construction.
Yah she works , guess I judged wrongly
Wewe hujui Hakimi Rules? Wanaume wameoneshwa kivumbi trusting their wives with resources, its now mandatory all boys going for circumsion this holiday season waambiwe Hakimi ni nani.
Anyway, some mothers are also evil. Hao madem wako uarabuni kazi za umboch have really suffered sending their mothers money for projects zinakulwa.
So hapa naeza sema 1-1
Hakimi rules works if you have a serious Mum. Coz the money is your hard earned sweat whether its your Mum or Wife…kuja umonitor construction mwenyewe coz generally women are poor at matters construction women are only eager to occupy the finished house and furnish it thats it.
Weh ukikuwa hapo utaenda kucheki kama sakafu inakuwa compressed vizuri, right materials na quantity imeletwa kama mbao ni quality mzuri kama tiles zainawekwa sawa and you reduce wastage vitu kama maji blah blah blah i can go on and on.
Then ukionesha wife live live that una trust your mum more than her…she will punish you…atadinyana nje.
Usimix vitu za mum na wife wekea kila mtu lane yake.
Pesa ni ya maparo. Omwami ni custodian. No wonder lazima Alete receipts. The wife has no right to access the money. Case closed
Why don’t you marry your mother? Fucking idiot.
Ni Kama wale wazee hufungia their college aged daughters kwa nyumba ati ndio wasikatiwe. Mzee, utaoa huyo mtoto?
Watu huku nje hawana akili.
Only a madman prioritizes his wife over his mother. One sleeps next to you, the other one is your link to eve and her apples.
Some mothers are so evil they had to go to King Solomon to debate cutting a baby in half. A normal women behaviour that seems to extend to goddesses as well.
So there’s a clear design language there.
It depends banae..lakini most cases ni mother first.
because she is my mother …shit, wait. you really are this stupid?!! 
afadhali mathe akule zote, nijuange ni mathe alinifuliza
Wife will be first if you have a good mother.
A narcissistic mother will come first before your wife and anything else.
60 years of kagege logic. 