Madam …
I keep saying ad infinitum …
Choose your life partner carefully …
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Then relax and enjoy life long bliss … :D:D
1 in 7 billion
Umesahau aunty Ruckus ni team pale skin hatambui negroes or as she says baboons. Women choose partners badly alafu wataanza kulilia watu later on,save your tears.
Wueehhh ..
Clarify …
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Are you actually saying here in public that someone like Cousin Barrack can "Float Your Boat " … ??? :D:D:D
The guy was her baby daddy best friend and an advocate like her. Her baby daddy died when she was pg. This man offered to raise the boy. She did not feel like she had options bcz she was a singo mother. She did what a patriarchal society would expect her to do which is, take what she can get bcz as a singo mother she does not deserve to have standards. Then when it falls apart again it’s her fault for choosing badly. Universal scapegoat from Adam. It’s ALWAYS the woman’s fault in a man’s world.
Chimpanzee manenos.
Man how deluded is this reasoning, ati ‘baby daddy’s friend’ making permanent decisions based on emotions, was he the only prospect? Sometimes life is cruel yes the baby daddy died but on the 1st hint when you sense something’s wrong walk away. Ndoa si lazima & I’m neutral on this. I’m sure if the woman took her time before marrying again, evaluated well hangejipata kwa hio msiba and you can always walk away.
It is delusional but hapo ndio society imefikisha wanawake. Even a family advocate of the high Court can be this deceived. Someone who is advising women to leave toxic marriages on daily basis in her line of work and meanwhile she can’t do so herself.
When you feel desperate and like you have no options and you buy into lies of society like single mother stigma, nobody will marry a single mother so if ANY man offers grab it, same if you are promiscuous, older, disabled, obese, poor and many other categories of what a patriarchal society considers not to be wife materials. The family of the woman was also pressuring her to stay in the marriage for the sake of their own standing in society. So our society is a sick society and women bear the brunt especially the ones with no self esteem like this one.
If you are not someone who is very principled and very strong minded you will fall for this kind of thinking that makes you extremely desperate that you will go home to a man who has shown you a knife and told you that he will kill you and call your family to pick your remains. You don’t know how many women are living this way.
The good thing about it is that it strengthens the resolve of the woke ones to steer clear of all toxicity of this nature.