Mr. Zulu not pulling any punches. Enyewe kupata ball ya chimpanzee boyfriend is a huge blunder you can regret for the rest of your life and if you have sex guess what you are likely to get pg even if you use protection bcz they fail. Sema kurukwa aka chimpanzees doing what they do best, kuingia forest. Wah. Sema stress. Unplanned pregnancy is the worst nightmare ever. I heard Kate actress say that she cried every day for a year after she found out that she was pg and the chimpanzee who gave her his damaged monkey seed eloped into the nearest forest. I know common sense ain’t common buh if you don’t want no chimpanzees babies the only sure fire way to ensure that is don’t ferk with them monkeys. You don’t want to be left holding even one baby monkey leave alone 2. Secret number two is that having monkey kids attracts more monkeys to come give you more monkey kids. I knew a guy whose mom had 5 kids with 5 different chimpanzees. All boys btw. And she was BEAUTIFUL. These chimpanzees are just wicked like that. So relationship is not equal to sex mama. I am seeing someone yet I am in the process of getting quality offspring, once I start showing itabidi I act crazy to put him off coz these chimpanzees are psychos aki kuona na ball ya mwanaume mwingine when he’s never laid a finger on you, you might end up in Nairobi River so just act crazy ajikate mwenyewe . I am not risking getting no chimpanzee offspring by laying down with him. And lemme tell you Satan is real, you sleep with someone you don’t want to get pg for, he’ll make sure that it happens, Tena the Lil monkey looks EXACTLY like his dad and not like you. Chungeni sana, in this economy no woman can afford to raise kids for chimpanzees. Not with all the quality junguu seed available for our offspring. It’s a woman’s job to get the best seed for her offspring. Even in the animal kingdom female animals pick the best male gene wise. You have to use cold hard logic when getting kids no place for emotions bcz it’s a decision that is irreversible and eternal. This man’s poor or great genes will be in your lineage forever. Let’s not forget that chimpanzees are affected by negative epigenetics from slavery traumas passed on from generations to generations. In Africa its called colonialism. Date chimpanzee bcz that’s what’s available but tuzalie wazungu coz our offspring deserve nothing less than the absolute best .
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A lot of young ladies with two children are asking why they’re not being approached by good guys and I think it’s important to remember that the game changes when you get two kids. You must calm down now and prepare for a different kind of life. Thinking you’ll continue searching as if you were just single and marry a single man is a fantasy. Your best bet is to date other men who also have children.
There may be these young boys in their early 20’s who are yet to know themselves and they’ll happily consume your goodies if you let them, but they’ll still leave when they come to themselves. If you mistake them for a man and attach your hopes onto them they’ll just give you another whiplash of a heartbreak.
It’s total madness to be getting children outside marriage or in a loose entanglement and still hoping to live a normal life.
But most ladies were not planning on getting children, they just entertained the notion that it’s normal to be getting intimate with their boyfriends. They scoffed at the idea of dating celibate and they had all these lines to throw at anyone who suggested it. ‘Don’t be so legalistic. We all sin differently. These are modern times and things have changed. We’ll repent. Nobody will accept you if you don’t give in to sex.’ But as soon as the consequences for their lifestyle begin to arrive they suddenly change tune. If you’re still single I suggest you volunteer to help your friends who get caught so that you can witness the experience closely and get rid of your presumptions and ignorance.
Getting a child withdraws you from the world for a period and it completely alters your rhythm. Your life can crawl to a halt and when you pick up you must restart again. By the time the baby is grown enough for you to catch up with your former colleagues again, a lot has changed. Many people actually never return to their previous friend group. But you can still rebuild your life and date normally like a single person.
If, however, after this experience you still refuse to enforce celibacy and you end up getting another child, this time it’s your social status that changes. You’re no longer regarded as single. Most people see two children as a whole package and now you can only shop among those who also have children. Most will be coming from other marriages but you, you’ll be coming from defiance and a refusal to discipline your sexual life.
Faggots huh? Naw. Faggots have 500 sexual partners in a year. The whole point of being a faggot is to have indiscriminate anal and oral sex with myriads of strangers hence the gey parks and Bath houses.
So having self control and self discipline is now called being a simp. Clearly you have never met a ferk boy who is now on ARVs, it will simp the sex drive right out of you.
What is a meaningful relationship? A sexual arrangement? An arrangement where you call each other boyfriend/girlfriend and its long term? Or is it serial monogamy where you marry someone and have kids with them then you divorce them and marry other people?
Human beings hardly ever understand the concept of meaningful relationship is. If a woman can be married with kids and have enough sexual partners at the office and her exes, well I guess sleeping around makes it all the more ‘meaningful’ huh?
Because surely what meaning can an engagement have with no sex? Sex workers must have alot of meaningful engagements then. Don’t reduce human interaction to sex, we are not wild animals who just ferk on impulse.
With 50% marriages ending in divorce, the spirit might be willing but reality not so much.
As it is said, the road to hell is paved with good intentions and probably alot of cement since most people will end up there.
Anyway, maybe because you are still a young virile man you can’t imagine a relationship that is cemetery without sex.
I read somewhere that many wives after marriage would rather wash the toilet than have sex with their husbands. Of course if you are having sex with a new six packed gym instructor you might have trouble looking at your husband of 15 years as a sex object.
Anyway my point is that sex is the most highly overrated thing in this world. Whenever I think of the holy grail of marriage or cemented relationships as you call them, I don’t think of hot sex. I think of Wahoro Kinyiri? whose wife was in a coma for years and he was with her every day until she breathed her last.
As for celibacy, I know that it is a choice because if it wasn’t then people who take an oath of celibacy would not be sleeping around while those of us who have never taken any oath just decline overtures on the regular.
True celibacy, not enforced, is an esoteric concept that very few will truly come to appreciate. Most mystics are celibate by choice because they understand that spiritually you lose something when you have sex. Not just your bodily and emotional integrity but part of your spirit hence why in the discipline of fasting, even sex between married couples is not recommended.
Most people have sex with people who they don’t know well enough bcz they’re driven by lust or loneliness. This forum Lanye popularity tells you that but people never squarely discuss what they lose in the process and if in the end the benefits exceed the costs bcz clearly you personally have had sex with women who you are no longer with. Probably alot of sex. So why did the sex not cement the relationship into eternity? If sex really is the cement as you claim?
Anyway, I have lived long enough to know self restraint and self discipline in matters sex isn’t being a simp or a coward. It is being stronger and wiser than majority of the population. My mantra is that if I don’t want to be tied to you for eternity bcz sex is how most children are created then I won’t risk having sex with you. Plain and simple. No ordinances and religious beliefs. Just cold, hard facts.
Iff you don’t want to be with a man permanently or have his children join you for eternity. Don’t have sex. Sex was created for procreation and people who plan to be together until death. If you are not even married why commit yourself through sex when nowadays even marriage is no longer permanent meaning that even those married people having sex are doing so not knowing if their marriage will even survive. Sex is a very serious commitment than even having an operation. People have been messed up via sex but yall want to act like it’s like drinking soda. Personally I have buried too many relatives back when there were no ARVs for me to share the debonair attitude people have towards sex. I don’t want AIDS and I don’t want to risk having children with people I don’t love enough to be married to. I don’t want their trauma, karma, diseases, generational curses etc in my body. I don’t abstain for Jesus. I abstain because I love myself and I don’t want other people’s problems in my life. Kila mtu apambane na hali yake.