Is it the men who have changed or what is going on? If you are in corporate or even business world you always hear single men talking about how someone’s wife is throwing themselves at these guys. For no particular benefit sometimes. I heard one say that you can flirt with a married woman in the morning and dry fry her over lunch hour.
Pastors also have the same story. Ati whenever a woman comes to them in distress, it’s much easier to seduce a married woman than a single woman. Of course I understand that a single woman has more of a reputation to protect than a married one but why are they having very low self esteem that if a man just bats an eyelid at them they just fall for it.
Men can you tell us what you are doing or not doing to these women bcz their character seems to change for the worst after marriage. Sio bosses, colleagues, exes, pastors wala gym instructors.
As a single woman I am not in touch with any of my exes but I know many married women who are in constant communication with their exes and others have a FWBs arrangement from time to time mpaka unashindwa how can you be this cosy with an exe surely.
NASCOP has found that year after year, the highest new infection rate for HIV is highest among married couples. So high that it surpasses the traditionally highest demography of sex workers and men sleeping with men(MSMs) combined.
Because they end up marrying when they have hit the wall. So because they no longer valuable in the dating market pool they end up marrying a beta or a sigma. Remember most divorces are initiated by women and most people are no longer happy In marriage.
Marriage is a facade. Me too I have two married women older then me I f…k from time to time with zero financial obligations…
I think women have too high expectations for marriage. When it doesn’t live up to the hype they get coping mechanisms to cope with the disappointment.
I once worked with a lady who was in love with another married guy. As in they were both married. The guy wasn’t interested but the lengths she went to just to sleep with him was insane. After the deed was done the guy did not want to have rematches and she was actually unhappy about it and I told her it’s a blessing in disguise bcz her husband would have found out eventually if they kept going.
Others even go to drivers, gym instructors and even guards. Maybe it’s revenge after being cheated on.
Has anything really changed from yesteryears. Knowing what I know, there was lose women everywhere. Some people are tied in bad marriages and are likely to cheat.
its much easier to seduce a married woman if you know the ropes of secrecy. nimezingirwa na wengi in my circle wenye najua nikitaka nitakula, not to mention am already chewing one moss moss chini ya maji