There’s a trending topic in womanosphere where a woman who is 7 months pg with a widower whose wife died during child birth, is saying she wants the step daughter to be taken to the grandparents to raise her bcz she does not want her and her to be born child competing for the man’s attention and love. I always hear about men hating on kids of single mothers but I was shocked by this lady bcz she is also pg and doesn’t know if she will also die when giving birth. My question is, why engage a single parent only to start harassment or hating the kid, asking for them to be taken to grandparents? In fact the mama wants the child to be given out for adoption and was seeking advice on how to tell the man that hataki compe from the poor kid. It’s bad enough to lose your mother but now being chased away from your dad by your step mom? Isn’t it easier to just not date single people with small kids? At all. Instead of mistreating people’s kids? I’ve heard of kids being even killed by step mom or step dad. Why not just get someone who has a baby mama who lives with the child? In fact now I can see the sense of leaving your kids with your parents coz that mama will kill that child just from her tone she’s already hated that innocent kid.