The man is beating you, cheating, broke and you are still young. Next uletewe ukimwi. Si ukuwe tuu singo mother uwache hizi stress zote behind?
Marriage is a bad idea today. I am of the opinion that individuals should have goals/ ambitions where they are the main character. Do not bring other people into your dream.
Your dream may feature marriage at some point but let it be a calculated move. Be aware of the pros and cons so that you will not be surprised when shit happens.
It is like buying a Range Rover knowing that they are unreliable cars and parts very expensive. You will not be surprised when the transmission breaks down two months after purchase. You will actually be ready for any eventuality.
I came to realize that most people do not have a plan for their lives. For them, whatever happens happens.
Agreed. And most people don’t use reason/logic to determine their next actions. They’re enslaved by their feelings and emotions. Can’t blame though because behaving rationally is hard.