Nawale hatuna kids, ndio sasa tuna kizungumkuti. Yangu my parents 50/50, if not my sister and my nephew 50/50. Very gender balanced.
One time I was in a pyramid scheme, I mentioned it to my bf, aka Peleka pesa huko. I guess aliona I’m not willing to do anything joint, he thought that this thing I’m getting involved in with my finances must be good coz angeniambia tufanye requiring financial involvement on my part, I used to go missing or nil by mouth. Sasa kwa next of kin he wrote his youngest brother who was still in school. So pesa hizooo zikazama na pyramid. So the guy is like I give him some of mine coz I didn’t lose as much as him coz I was before him, so nikamwambia I can’t help you bcz you didn’t write me as your next of kin. He was like you you didn’t need that little money. And I told even you you don’t need this little one I’ve gotten from the guys of pyramid which I am sure his was part of it. We nenda kwa wenye unaweka next of kin wakusaidie sasa. You trust me to tell you where to invest your money but not as a next of kin. Na hapo ndio nilianza kujitoa kwa hio relationship nikiendanga.
Men are very selfish. Ukianza kuskia mambo na joint ventures sijui joint business anything joint ventures you are taking a very heavy risk. Especially if you have kids kila kitu iko under your husband’s name ama joint, Ole wako kwanza if you die your kids wataona mambo ya mama wa kambo and at the end of the day even if the father dies watanyanganywa every thing by the step mother. If your kids are small weka mamako awe trustee bcz men are easily moved and hawanaga attachments kwa watoto unless through the mother. So mukikosana or you die and he gets another wife and kids Bas mapenzi inaishia hapo and that’s how your kids will be left with nothing. Yet you worked hard all your life. I have seen it with my own eyes. The pilot who died recently. He had a kikuyu wife or MWK of 2 years, the woman has all the documents mpaka burial permit ashachukua, his wife and her 4 kids hawana say. Nowadays girls use witchcraft on these men, so the more things in the man’s name the more dangerous zitaenda na these women who know how to look for money with witchcraft. And Kenyan women wanajulikana mpaka TZ for looking for love charms to get money from men. They are the number one customers. And they spend a lot to buy those charms. Kuomoka watu lazima waomoke at whatever cost. We have seen it with Kamotho family saga. A woman with 5 kids of another man dislodged a wife with 12 kids of the man, then anamroga wanauza kila kitu, liquidate and put into her account and after that she kills the guy. All these men who end up fleeced by these always ends up dying. That is the world that we live in.