This murder suicides need to stop y’all. I know for white women once you go black we don’t want you back but you don’t have to kill yourself. You don’t. Or kill anyone, collect your alimony and child support and go back to riding that orangutan deck on the side, these chimps can’t get enough of your white ass. Don’t kill yourself. Over an affair or a divorce. The law is on your side over there. Don’t love a man especially a black man more than you love yourself and your life coz just like black women have been trying to tell you these gorillas ain’t shit. Now they’re dogging you out and making you single mothers too. A man isn’t gonna come correct bcz of the skin of your color if he wasn’t shit to begin with. True colors always come after the acting stage. Still nobody needs to die. The best revenge is moving on well. Living well and forget that loser. How are you going to kill yourself over a black man of all things? SMH.
No, Truwoman. I’m no racist, but black ass is queen
You can buy that nowadays ask Cardi B and Iggy Azalea. It’s called Brazilian Butt Lift. I would have got one myself but I have to psych myself to go see a dentist. I’m sure as hell will not go under a knife for anything that ain’t a matter of life and death.
are you white? , or you just hate black men, or black women? , either way he made the right choice , white women are nothing more than c*m dumpsters
Hehe, I doubt a true Meru woman needs that. Food and proper doshinastics will suffice. [SIZE=1]Still, unaweza tuma picha for assessment purposes[/SIZE].
LOL. I was joking. Nobody is more averse to injections and going under the knife than me. It’d have to be life and death. Btw women have been dying during these surgeries. It’s not worth the risk at all.
Ok…I thought (wrongly :D) that it was because someone was worried she wasn’t quite built for the needed swift manouvres, [SIZE=1]and the occasional rough use.[/SIZE]
I’m very confident about myself. Very confident. I don’t believe in going to extremes like surgery to attract men. If you are small, there’s men who love small women, if you are not there’s men who like that too. I mean God had everyone in mind, otherwise He’d just have created everyone to look exactly the same and how boring would that be? I saw some woman talking about how she regrets getting a Brazilian Butt Lift. So it appears God doesn’t make mistakes. She was happier b4 she got one, now she’s overly sexualised by men everywhere she goes.
You know, Truwoman, the beautiful and amazing thing about nature is that it remains true to itself, despite a person’s size. There is more to it than being confident. All women, no matter how thin or how big, have it in them to move in natural rhythm to the dance of passion, bum size notwithstanding–as long as they’re healthy. They might say they can’t–or, like you, that they are principled, and won’t--move, till the elusive and startling moment of self-knowledge. But then she must invent all sorts of bizarre mind games, and seek every ‘acceptable’ excuse for self assurance (such as supposedly too small, or too big, a mouth, a nose, hands, boobs, or derrier. Pouting, one hand on her navel, she poses sideways, on one foot: “Am I really attractive?” she asks the mirror), in reluctantly letting herself to be “tricked” into the primal dance, so she can later tell herself that it wasn’t her plan–but his!
Then, when the storm has passed, she’ll recall wild, giddy moments, when someone was swearing, screaming and whimpering. But, it wasn’t her, (“I don’t do that!”) because she had her hand over her mouth at the time.
Sex begins and ends with the man, so we can surely not expect the woman to take responsibility technically.
However, as humans, coitus involves more than in the animal kingdom where its for procreation. It’s not even a matter of principled, it’s a matter of being pragmatic. What is the point of having coitus with some man then you start having psychological problems once the deed is done?Worse still is getting incurable disease and bringing innocent humans into the world or even worse killing them.
I don’t think that whatever short lived pleasures coitus has to offer are worth the risk. I like the Jewish view of coitus. It’s viewed as a sacred act not a hedonistic one. Coitus is not a simple pleasure like eating a Mango. It is something that has serious far reaching implications. Spiritually, psychologically and physically or health wise.
I just can’t let you absolve women from responsibility, ati it begins and ends with men. I’ve known women who initiate seduction, and they aren’t hoes. At one time some girl I worked with made advances which l thought were just good hearted jokes, but when she offered me an overnight visit at her house one Friday I saw that she was serious. I developed cold feet, made excuses about not having notified my housemate, a cousin, about my intended absence (I never used to sleep out, he’d be worried.) After that I simply found ways of avoiding her.
I said technically sex begins and ends with men. Coitus is traditionally initiated by men, even among married folk, I hear its out of character for a woman to initiate coitus, your experience validates my point, you declined because she was taking the male role of being the pursuer , however if she seduced you indirectly by flirting and being coy, it’d have been you who would be asking her, if you were attracted to her that is, so again while men are encouraged to convince women who are not instantly attracted to them, women are expected to wait for the men who are attracted to them to woo or pursue them but what I meant is that technically, coitus begins and ends with the man’s erection. So if the man has erectile dysfunction, no coitus and if he has premature emissions the coitus ends there. It’s a social paradigm that it’s unladylike to be proactive participant in coitus rather a man is supposed to sweep you off your feet that absolved you as a woman of any responsibility TECHNICALLY.
I hear you.
It’s your clever and long-winded way of agreeing with me that women normally pretend not to be interested, so that they can feel safe blaming men for any possible trouble that may follow after getting laid, yet they do want to get laid. So being “ladylike” is feigning a cold disinterest, all calculated to make a man the culprit just because he’s technically the one who must make the first,and last move, and all the moves in between?That’s creates confusion, as well as the kijiji’s kifo cha mende disappointment.
@Lionheart I was wondering that you are losing your mental faculties thinking you are talking alone, only to realized I had blocked your “respondent” :D:D
Don’t put words in my mouth, I have not agreed to anything. We both know who has the most interest in having relations and it’s not women and that’s why 99.99% of people who purchase sex are men. So it’s not like women are feigning anything. They are alot less interested in having relations by far than men are but go along as a way of getting what they really want from men. I’m not saying that women are not attracted to men visually, sexually or romantically but it doesn’t translate into the one track mind men have of its all systems go towards having relations with the poor woman whose only fault was being appealing perhaps without even meaning to. Men’s desire is a raging inferno, women’s desire is a candle, it’s not a torrential no holds barred type of desire. It’s there but it’s not as strong.
Don’t wonder. I’m not usually sane:D
You misunderstand men’s attitude to sex. Men think of many things apart from sex, but when they do seek it they don’t seek it as a stepping stone to other things, it’s just an end in itself, a way of calming the demons that possess the body at times. It’s a temporary sort of madness. That’s what prevents men from thinking rationally when they want a woman badly, but after they have her they become normal again, what is called PNC. Women however, dangle sex as a bait to catch a man so that they can get something else. As you’ve said, they “go along as a way of getting what they really want from men.” Men’s desire “is a raging inferno”, because without it life would have no spark. After all, they must be the starters, and the finishers.
Demons that possess the body? A tad melodramatic. This is now the real classic blame shifting, to the devil no less. There’s no demon that possesses the body. Resist the devil and he will flee. The devil isn’t more powerful than your will. It is just that society encourages men to be promiscuous and doesn’t ostracize them as it does women who are not responsible with their sexuality. Society has given men a carte Blanche on their sexuality. As with all appetites, the more you indulge, the less control you have. That goes for food, alcohol, drugs and just about every thing that you can indulge in. A man without self control is like a mighty ship with no rudder.
Hehe, no melodrama. Really.
Maybe the demons start in the head, but they are felt in the body, and they aren’t like solid thought. More like a tiny tingle starting as a bolt of electricity around the chest and coursing throughout the body the first time you meet the cause of your trouble. It may be accompanied by a little irrational behaviour, occasional shortness of breath, inability to focus your thoughts, babbling, unexplained swings from a dreamy feeling of joy to moodiness, and tightness in the chest. When you meet her, all symptoms of illness vanish and you can think clearly. When you are young and naive, you call it love. When you are not…tell me those aren’t body demons!