Not only married but happily
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Nop [SIZE=1]central[/SIZE]
Most central women ni kama majamaa in their attitude
This is a very important clinical problem…thanks for sharing.
This is a guest post co-authored by Dr. Emily Harris.
In a recently published study 1 in the Archives of Sexual Behavior on the reasons why women fake orgasms, the researcher ended up in a number of conversations with women about whether or not they “faked.” Some women said, “Of course, who doesn’t fake?” while others were shocked at the thought—“Women should demand an orgasm!” they said.
When digging a little deeper, many of these women grounded their actions in their beliefs about gender. Narratives of “men should,” or “men do,” and “women have to,” or “women should” frequently emerged. Of course, if a partner does not know a clitoris from a thigh, then the likelihood of a woman faking her orgasm will skyrocket. But there is more than simple pragmatics that determines when and who fakes an orgasm.
[SIZE=5]1. Faking to Keep a Partner[/SIZE]
Evolutionary psychology explains the phenomenon of faking orgasm as a “mate retention strategy,” whereby orgasms are valued by men, and so women in heterosexual relationships will fake their orgasm to satisfy their partner 2 . In doing so, women are hoping to “retain” their partners.
Support for this explanation was found in this most recent study—the women who thought their partners were more likely to cheat on them were more likely to have faked an orgasm with their partner.
[SIZE=5]2. Faking to Sexually Satisfy a Partner[/SIZE]
But what role does gender play? In the study, researchers looked at how specific beliefs about gender and sex might be associated with faking an orgasm.
They found that if a woman thinks that, in general, men need their partner to orgasm to be sexually satisfied, she is more likely to fake her orgasm. This is perhaps not surprising, but it is worth discussing because it is wrapped up in the idea that men should care about their partner’s pleasure.
Most feminists would agree that a man should know a clitoris from a thigh, and of course, most heterosexual men do. In addition, most feminists would agree that men shouldn’t be selfish in bed—they should be attuned to what their partner wants.
However, what this recent finding shows is that there is a difference between wanting a partner to experience orgasm for the sake of their own pleasure, without pressure, and needing a partner to orgasm in order to feel satisfied. And this difference can be the difference between a real and a fake orgasm for a woman.
[SIZE=5]3. Faking for Lack of a Reason Not To[/SIZE]
In addition to these specific beliefs about gender and sex, the study also measured broad gender attitudes that have nothing to do with the bedroom, but that can guide our interactions with others based on their gender. For example, a “hostile” gender belief is that women are overly sensitive and defensive. A more traditional gender belief is that women should be doted on, and cherished by men. These beliefs can operate in the back of our minds to guide how we interact with men and women.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/inclusive-insight/201909/3-reasons-women-fake-orgasms
Nothing happened, my friend. She diid not change. He did not change. She continued faking orgasms. Therapy is usually about validating a woman’s position in what should be called “her dilema”. She has zero visceral attraction to the guy. The woman will steer therapy using tears and other tactics to arrive at a certain position. And that position will ultimately involve finding the man at fault; by "not washing utensils, and by “not cooking”, and by “not communicatig”, and by “not being romantic” and “not changing the diapers”, and by “not washing the babies”…etc. That way, when she finally decides to leave him, she will have a multitude of reasons that the therapist has legitimised for her.
Problem with Roger or cousin in that case,is marrying a high millage donkey which has seen more dicks than rainy seasons in their youth ,they will be fantasising about a certain dick as you are busy pumping the borehole, that’s y moslems marry virgins or low millage women who don’t know wat a orgasm is ,she will always think you are the best until wen she becomes a hoe