I have to say that ever since I’ve known about condoms, they have been a little bit like magic. I could put a long list of things that condoms help prevent but it’s easier to just say that condoms are your license to sex without consequence (excluding the emotional stuff). I would always read and hear stories of people having unprotected sex in these forums and I’d wonder whether or not they understood the risks and I’d somehow feel better/safer than them because I always had condoms in my plans. That was until it all went flying out the window.
Most of you will recall the incident I spoke of on Ktalk.com about a certain condom that went “boom”. That incident was the start of a long month of worry, anger, confusion, regret and introspection. How could I have been so stupid? I don’t consider myself stupid because the condom burst but simply because I didn’t realize until I was vulnerable that I was f*cking a stranger!