Hakuna kitu mzuri mwanaume atawahi leta kwa Maisha ya mwanamke, I’ve lived my whole life around this gender and I know, mwanaume akija kwako ni shetani amemtuma kwako. All what a man will do for you is to kill,steal and destroy, just like the devil. When you see women choosing to stay alone just know that something is very wrong with this gender! Men are there but we fear them. They hit on us even with this our big age but we just run away from them coz hatutaki kujiletea shida, life is already tough enough without man related problems. We better be lonely and even die of it, if it can kill but mambo ya kuentertain wanaume hata chembe tawe! I better jump off 14th floor nikitoroka wanaume. That is how dangerous this gender is.
Once this gender has made you a single mother, learn from it, don’t go back to the lion’s den because Satan will never hit 
you once and leave you. Like an apex predator he will patiently stalk you until he kills you and completely destroys your destiny and especially if you are greatly gifted and annointed by God. Satan is jealous! Of God ! And he hates everything that is made by God. Mambo za wanaume achaneni nazo please. When I was trying to be a single mother, I became disturbed when it was time to start the process so I looked for counsel from 3 pastors, one pastor warned me that Satan is always waiting for you whenever you are outside God’s will. You can die giving birth or you can get a problematic/evil or abnormal child or even a good child who will die after you have struggled to raise them.That was when I stopped everything and forgot about getting a kid. I shelved my dream of becoming a mom of a junguu kid so as not to go outside God’s will. It might look like a huge sacrifice but anything is better than being outside the will of God because God always wants the best for us even when it doesn’t look like it. Obedience is better than sacrifice. Some sins like getting kids outside wedlock have permanent and visible results to shame the name of God and God says whoever will destroy My temple, I will destroy! Usitafute vita na God. Imagine Satan and God fighting you 
If you are a child of God avoid being outside God’s will because once you are in the devil’s territory Satan must punish you for having served and loved God, his ultimate goal is premature deaths. I think you can see recently how young people who were outside God’s will have died in bars- which is a demonic altar, by falling off buildings and being hit by cars after drinking. If so far God has protected you from Satan just leave worldly ways and go back to living in God’s will. Huko nje hakuna kitu kizuri. Just Satan waiting to devour your life and steal everything from you and destroy you.
Betty Bayo was married or come we stay with Kanyari who is an occultist with his mother Prophetess Nduta. They conned HIV positive people land, property and money lying to cure them and sent them to fake clinics for fake results. They stopped taking ARVs and died. The lineage of prophetess Nduta who was the one who began this scam is cursed. Betty only saw money. There is no godly woman God will allow to marry a conman with a cursed lineage. Even the death of Starlet Wahu was the work of Satan to humiliate this family. When Satan has legal ground in your life, he will use your destruction to spoil God’s name. The entire Prophetess Nduta family are fake pastors. Satan has a throne there. Hata Sky akicheza she can end up like Starlet Wahu - as a socialite. Shetani Hana marafiki. He destroys those who serve him and those who are of God like Betty. So the devil isn’t done. He has his eyes on Betty’s kids too.
Betty Bayo then linked up with a married man with two children - girls,the man is called Tash. In God’s eyes marriage is a sacred institution and anyone involved with a married man or woman is cursed. Betty Bayo was highly annointed by God like most last borns but the devil saw her bright destiny and brought many Ishmaels to finish her off. If Betty Bayo had just stayed in the will of God she’d have been bigger than Sinach but shetani ni Nani? Ukisikia the devil comes to kill,steal and destroy - this is a perfect example! If you associate yourself with God stay in God’s will so that you get his protection. Once you are outside God’s will, Satan has legal ground in your life and he will do everything in his power to finish you. Avoid situations where you are living in sin like cohabiting with a married man or even a single one or a divorced one. You are inviting Satan and he delivers!
I know that the Patriarchy has brainwashed us that we are nothing in the eyes of society without men but unless God has clearly spoken to you to marry a certain man don’t even try to get his kids. Satan will take over at some point because you are outside the will of God. I know being human it feels hard to stay with out a man as a woman or vice versa, if you do it, you honour God by not living in sin and He strengthens you to be able to do it. It gets better and easier with time. Humans are built able to overcome challenges in life. So here is Bayo’s story. I hope we can all learn from it and keep off being outside the will of God. It’s dangerous and it will destroy you in every imaginable way.
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Betty Bayo died as a result of head injuries after allegedly being beaten by her husband, Tash, and not from leukemia as earlier medical reports indicated. This is according to Betty’s mother in the USA, who last night dropped a bombshell during a virtual interview with Shiru Wa Oakland. According to Mama Betty, Tash and Betty had separated three months before the Kikuyu gospel artist’s death, and Tash had reportedly returned to America. In a shocking turn of events, Betty’s mother says she does not understand how Tash managed to return to Kenya within a very short time to check in Betty’s body at Kenyatta Hospital shortly after she was confirmed dead.Why did they separate? The mother claims that Tash had siphoned Betty’s money and used it to purchase two lorries in America, each worth Ksh 8 million. She adds that the final incident involved Tash allegedly beating Betty while drunk and forcing her to give him Ksh 5 million, leaving her daughter broke. Distraught, Betty reportedly called her mother, crying, “Mum, who did you leave me with? I’m not safe. Huyu ataniua.”Before the burial, the family including Tash agreed that Betty’s sisters would take care of the children. However, after the burial, Tash allegedly refused to honour the agreement and told Betty’s mother to go to court if she wanted the children. Besides the children, Tash is also said to be in possession of Betty’s death certificate, her mother’s ID card, and other important documents.Mama Betty also expressed disappointment that Shiru Wa GP the renowned gospel artist and Betty Bayo’s close friend has never picked up her calls since the tragedy, something she says has deeply hurt her..
Betty’s mother praised Prophet Kanyari for being genuine and present for his children, urging him to go to Betty’s house and ensure the kids’ safety, as she believes they are not safe under Tash’s care, Tash who even on the night of the burial, brought other women into the home and made merry in Betty’s matrimonial bed. She also insists that a postmortem must be conducted on Betty’s body for her daughter to receive justice.