So we’ve been with this lady for some years now. At first when we started out, she would be wetting her pants in an instant. A touch on the arm, a kiss, a little caress and the girl would literally “die” on my arms.
By the time I was dipping my fingers into her cookie jar, she would be dripping wet. She would even confess on phone how she gets wet when we are talking on phone.
First forward to now, the woman in my life no longer gets wet instantly. I have to push and pull, cajole and caress, wriggle and jiggle, lick and stick… just to get a drop of juice out of her hole of life. Sometimes Mzee Abdalla will need to be lubed up with saliva or anything else to get the right of way smoothed up.
Is it a state she has reached in our relationship-cum-marriage that her body behaves this way or what else could be the issue.
True, we do not know whether she ever gets taken out, treated, cooked-for, complimented, etc. It could be that the routine has set in and the consequences are as described. It’s a game of give and give, to receive, and it applies both ways.
Like have you had major disagreements in the intervening period, instances of exposed infidelity…heck! Even the words you use to initiate action are most likely different…
Well, disagreements zinakuwa once in a while. We’ve never fought or anything. We still have a good time, but due to work we don’t spend much time together. I leave before sunrise and get home when it’s pitch dark. Have supper and off to bed. No exposed infidelity. I still call her honey, sweety and all that shenanigan names women love…
