Men use ‘lower’ women for sex (with no investment), women on the other hand use ‘lower’ men for money (with no investment, no returns)
Now giving a kunguru money can be divided into two.
The first situation is when it’s a healthy symbiotic (hypergamous) relationship. This is when it’s clear a man is far richer and the lady is struggling financially. The lady has no issue giving the man what he wants, the man on the other hand helps the lady financially. In this case everybody gets what they want out of the relationship.
We’re not talking about that as this in the first place involves much older men with grey hair and younger gels.
What it’s our concern is beta males, a term used only by men. Women call them ‘boyfriends for money’. When a lady has decided she wants to suck every penny out of you and run as soon as you discover how dumb you have been.
Why dumb? Because you couldn’t tell she’s only using you for money.
In such scenarios the ladies have another guy, an alpha male, who has been given the keys to the forbidden fruit yet he’s not removing even a single penny.
So what do you do in such scenarios, if you’re a beta male; If a girl asks you money (and there’s no clear sign of any ‘return of investment’)
Beta males recently opened a thread about that but of course there was no good solution provided
And let’s be practical, since already you’re in that situation, you can’t eliminate the girl from your life by blocking her or forgetting her. If you were a guy to do that, you wouldn’t be in that situation in the first place.
So now that you want the girl, this is what you do.
If the girl asks you for money, you send her. And forget it. (I am hoping that amount is not much according to your pockets to make you feel bad). For the next like 2 or more weeks don’t initiate any contact.
Don’t be like, ‘Hey Caro, I sent you money are you now coming over.’ or ‘Hey Caro, I have been giving you money yet there’s nothing you’ve ever given me’
And once you begin texting her after that period don’t mention anything, totally anything to do with the cash, otherwise you will spoil everything.
Just begin things normally and don’t make the same mistakes that made you to be treated like a beta male (Exposed the beta male in you) like overly worshipping her with compliments, dragging dying chats along instead of ending them by blueticking her etc
And that’s it. You will soon get to add the mileage instead of being treated as the ‘money guy’