MIMI HAPA NI KUCHUKUA SLICES TU.NO NEED AKUJE KUISHI KWANGU.UNAKAMUA NA UNAFUNGULIA INAENDA
ladies no man will ever love u with two kids na hana mtoto.no day wil ever kam ati akuoe.open your eyes ladies.utakamuliwa na utembeze kuma
Admin should combine all threads on single mothers. This will create a very active and prolific source of information on marrying single mothers. The thread will guide and consel many confused men and a few more confused women on the issues sorrounding single mothers and marriage.
huyu atarukia hiyo ndoa mbio sana. watoto atawachia mama yake wakue wanatuma pesa. hii jina “marriage” confuses so many women just because wako na expiry period fupi sana lazima wawekelee mtu G-clamp before gravity starts acting on their bodies. SMH
The only way to make sense out of marrying a single mother is if she has only one kid, that kid lives with her parents until he/she is an adult and the husband has zero responsibilities towards raising that child. That is the only way to remove any baggage that comes with single mothers. The problem is, single mothers are selfish in nature, and they dont want to sacrifice any of that. If the kid lives with her parents till adulthood, the guy has no psychological baggage to deal with. If there is a solid agreement that he is not responsible for the upkeep of that child, there is no financial baggage. That way, he starts on a clean slate like marrying a woman without kids.
This is serious, just reminded me of a tough decision am trying to make but sitakojolea thread ya wenyewe, will write a separate thread on it so that I can get opinions and views from villagers