Met this dude in a house party seven weeks ago, he acted all interested in me so we exchanged contacts, shortly thereafter we were seeing each other on a regular basis . On our 4th date, the dude wanted to have some but I instinctively refused though i thought he was cool.
On the dates that followed he always asked to have some but I always refused thinking it was too soon, wanted to wait longer just to make sure he was the guy I wanted to be with.
On this past Friday evening he invited me to join him and his friends for a night out at his favorite club, since I was now ready for him I thought I’ll take the opportunity to consummate our relationship, time had come to take it to the next level, I dressed as sexy as I could and as the night progressed I gave him all the right signals which he seemed to acknowledge.
When home time came, I expected him to ask me to go spend the rest of the night in his house as he usually did which I would happily accept but instead he was cold and did not say much. He drove me straight to my house kissed me good night and took off in the darkness of the night leaving me all alone.
I was left confused and wondered what I had done wrong
That is what he has been going through all the other days, a dude can only take a NO so many times. He did not want to go through the humiliation again of asking for the cookie and being told hapana. He most likely went to the ever so reliable and cheerful giver that has been keeping him sane all those times you were saying NO (We always have one… or two …or even three)
When it was your turn to give him some some, you refused to put it on head. The anticipation he had fizzled out and he got laid somewhere else. Deal with it.
Just to add to what Mhenga @Ice_Cube said, 5 dates is abit much even for a good Christian girl who is looking for a serious relationship. Don`t forget that you are competing with college girls and hornier women who will give it up just because you look at them.
Its not all lost; if you really feel him then its upto you to do the chasing now. men like that. He is going to play hard to get at first but the situation now calls for you to prove it to him that you want him.
Na kama hataki,inbox yangu haijafungwa.
The guy is not gay as @Wakanyama he only had a fall back pussy for that day to releave the pressure. He will come around next weekend when you continue being sexy. No need for alarm.
:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:Dhehehehe!!! I fuck on the first date, I never give a female time to think if am Mr right or not. Your guy sounds like a weak man, forget about him, get yourself a real man like me who will fucck you the first day he see you.
no need to overthink when it comes to matters of the heart
kwanza hawa she should always beware, these are not the 90s when we would stay for months with a boner reserved for that special girl, siku hizi kuna whatsapp, facebook, a beaver is almost always a click away.
Oooh pole baibe, am right here and am a better guy than that excuse of a man who doesn’t know when a chic is horny. Twende inbox tumalizie haya maneno huko.