What most women go through in the plantation

I can say that this story agrees with the many stories I have heard from married women. My question is why do men do this psychological warfare on their wives? Is it to have control, instill fear or what? For me Zakayo is abusing me financially and that’s about all the abuse I have capacity for. Anyone else brooo not me look for someone else.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouXH52BBg4I

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