Women who are not married assume that married women have their backs covered by their husbands. They don’t have to go to garage like single women. They don’t even have to think about buying, selling and maintaining cars.
I am slowly realizing that even modern couples, women still pay their own insurance. They have to figure out how to maintain their cars. They still have to look for buyers. Yaani basically they don’t get help from the so called husband even in doing house repairs. It’s the woman who is looking for electricians and plumbers even painters.
Its very shocking to realize that especially among the elite women in society, even finances, fees, house budgets is on them. Husband is more of a ceremonial figure than a functional one. I know a top career woman who is the husband, the house is hers, the kids school fees, the husband uses his money to entertain students who are his girlfriends. We meet from time to time and let me tell you it’s frustrating to be a provider when you are a married woman. It makes you feel unfeminine, uncared for, unprotected. You end up becoming very manly.
Unfortunately chimpanzees have always had a problem of failed manhood. They want to be effeminate. They want to be provided for by women. They are hypergamous. The white man is a total man. He takes care of his woman. He does not work his wife to the bone. What do you bring to the table is not his language.
The white man is supreme. The white man is a real masculine alpha male and that is why when a black woman is married to a white man, a Chinese man or other races of real men, she submits totally, she is the epitome of feminity. She can rest in her feminine, fall back and let the man take care of her. Nothing makes a woman’s femininity blossom like a man who takes care of everything. I have realized that women who are married to black men are a frustrated and bitter lot. Their only happiness in this life is their children.
Black men are who they are, if you end up with one be prepared to be the man and woman of the house, be ready to have a man child who you buy houses and cars and watches and phones for instead of your being the recipient. A beautiful older lady friend confided in me, that she felt wasted by her husband. I encouraged her, he gave you beautiful children and even goes to PTA meetings as you toil in the corporate world. Look at the silver lining.
I was very oblivious of the way men waste their wives bcz I thought that it was baby mommas getting wasted , infact the wives are the most used, abused and wasted people in men’s lives. Afadhali wewe ulikua pumped and dumped and that’s where the being wasted ended , the wife is his beach I mean slave until death or until he decides to dump her. I remember once reading that in marriage is where women really know what or who men are . If they are real men like the whites it’s great but for our dear chimpanzees, mama you are on your own. Lower your expectations of black men otherwise depression, ulcers and high blood pressure is waiting for you.
Before envying someone try walking a mile in their shoes. Married folk are Oscar award winning actors , behind the scenes it’s another story . Anyway ndovu haishindwi na pembe zake. I salute all women with black men, you are everything and everything is you. Btw when a black man is married to a white woman he is even more effeminate than the ones married to black women. That white woman is the head of the home. She is the cash cow. The black man submits to her completely. Wale muko mayuu please do your best to marry or have kids with white men, those considering going it alone you can get white kids and leave the chimpanzee and his inferiority behind .