How does a married woman get to the point where on New Year’s Eve she drowns her two kids aged 7 boy and 3 girl? She then walks 2km to where the husband is with his friends muenjoyo ya kufungua mwaka and tells him that the kids are dead at the hands of a kidnapper. Hadi she breaks her phone to stage the thugs.
Can you imagine drowning a 7 year old boy in a bucket of water? How strong is this woman? Ni frustration gani hizi that can push a woman to do this then calmly walk to where her husband and calmly tell him that their kids are dead?
Married women, I know living with this men ain’t easy na ni mateso tupu many times. I have friends who are married I know what they go through but drowning your kids is taking out anger and frustration on the wrong people.
I have been told many times by married women that hawa wanaume wanaweza kutoa wazimu but before kichwa iruke, talk to someone, me I accept calls all hours of the night from my married friends bcz staki ku ignore simu ya mtu then in the morning they are trending for killing their children when I could have helped. Please ladies let’s support each other isifike hapa.
I have a friend who has 4 kids who kept telling me that whenever she sees a knife she feels like stabbing her husband and her kids. Nikamwambia psychiatrist are there and I can take her to see one coz there’s no shame in seeking help if you are having homicidal ideation or suicidal ideation.
So please wamama let’s seek help before things get out of hand because by the time you are doing something like this, it’s not the first time you have ever thought about it. Go see a pastor. Talk to someone about whatever frustration you may be having with your spouse. Mental health ni kitu muhimu sana. Without it you can’t be a good mother.
Being a mum can be very stressful so you need support hata kama ni online there are enough FB groups for mums. Enda hapo umwage shida zako zote na pseudo account, you will get help. Don’t wait until things overwhelm you, women are good at offering each other social support.May the kids RIP