One word! Gaslighting! Damned if you do. Damned if you don’t. So just do 4B . And notice how sweet and peaceful life can be when you are self centered and you have decentered men and their inherent toxicity. Vote with your legs. Kiss these frogs Goodbye. After all what worth does a man who doesn’t give you ALOT of money really have in your life? Like what other value can a man have other than how he can monetarily gain you? Absolutely nothing! Men are lousy in bed. Men have terrible personalities. Men have no emotional intelligence. Men are not good partners. Like what does a man have to offer a woman other than money? So if you already have your own money what do you need men for? To come give you STDs ama high blood pressure because of stress,to overwork you by not pulling their weight, to turn you into a personal slave,to risk your life trying to give birth to their offspring,to do all the child rearing as they take selfies with the kids to boast? Nigga police you don’t need these monkeys for shit! Just go 4B . Save your energy for something better like a pet . Better love with less maintenance. Boy bye!