Mary Njoki said her Mzungu husband proposed to her before they met physically. The two met on Facebook early this year and their relationship sparked off like fire. Njoki never experienced love and worth in the previous two relationships, as both were abusive. Sharing her relationship journey after the wedding, the Mzee Wanyama-Nakuru born Woman said she suffered much pain. "In my first marriage, I was the third wife and both the first and my then-husband despised me and treated me unkindly.
Mary Njoki
I ended up having five children in this relationship that lasted for nine years before I walked away," she recalled.
In her second relationship, she met a young, handsome man who was almost her age, and they married. However, his behaviour was intolerable as he was not only a drunkard but also abusive, prompting her to leave after a few years. “I decided I would live alone and raise my children, one day my cousin who got married to a wealthy Mzungu connected me with native doctor Mama Mweza but after we shared alot and I told her I was interested in trying again, she told me it’s through Mama Mweza that she found her husband and he was so charming and caring so I contacted Mama Mweza,” she said. Few days later, after visiting Mama Mweza, someone strange sent her a friend on Facebook and later started a conversation through the inbox. He introduced himself and confessed his love for her. She told him that she needed a man that would love her and her children and he accepted. He was a widower with two children, grownups. “He’s the most wonderful person I’ve ever met. He made me go so close to God; I could see Jesus in him. He is genuine, true, humble, loving, kind, and patient. This is a man who has never insulted me since we met, thanks Mama Mweza you’ve washed my tears and helped me experience true love, I owe you alot,” she said.
