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April 26, 2019, 2:00am
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Huyo atakutawala - eti ukunywe then discipline him.
Kids ni boundaries…warning akirudia consequences. Ukiendelea hivyo the world out there will teach him what boundaries are.
wee huezi saidika…inakaa you son has bigger balls than you…nini inakufanya usimkazie hiyo ps4?? ama wewe ni wale pathetic excuses of dads??
mdau,hufai ata kujipiga kifua kujiita a father,brare chieth
Like most have said, teach him about boundaries and also stop PAMPERING the kid. He is a teenager already, that wont end well. Learn when to be friendly and also when to be firm and administer tough love
thesavage:
That is a stage in development. Your son is normal. Very normal. Ni kahii. What do you expect? Boys that age move in packs like wolves. They will squeal like pigs when they find theselves in a death trap during a game. We have sons who game, and in class/school they are still boss. Do not deny him the games but buy him a gaming computer intead. That way he will become familiar with operating systems, learn how to type in the process, install software, learn to work with different softwares…word processors/ excel/browsers/ graphics softwares like photoshop CS/ etc. In gaming he will learn how to mode. He will learn different specs and how to maintain his own computer. I despise a play station in the hands of a kid. DO NOT GIVE HIM INTERNET.
Making noise in the house cannot be avoided.
But he should know not to make noise when you are asleep. It is an innocent crime. But children have a natural fear for their parents sijui kama umekosea mahali. If your son’s friends come in on Sunday to find you asleep, and are aware that you are asleep, I would expect your son to tell them to find something else to do, or pick a bike and herd them out to go bike riding or something. My background nililelewa kwamba it is taboo to wake your father from sleep unless for a serious, very serious matter. He is growing up and should learn this right now. Teach him gently. Let him teach his crew too.
To be honest I find you a real man. Wengine hapa ni matusi tu. Nobody is very perfect in doing things. I have failed here and there but that doesn’t mean I’m abnormal. Kudos to you na mwenye swali pia. Prov 22:6:
PS4 ni mbaya imefanya nimeshindwa kumaliza LLM