Those who were running or started a biz after being married, how do you do it? Does the wife run it for you ama unampea ikuwe yake?
A client today told me to never give up control ya biashara to the wife. Ati wife should be managing the biashara, bank the cash kwa account yako and give you a report from time to time.
Mwanamke na biashara is a bad idea. Rarely ends well. Kuna mmoja i was serious with and to get her off my back financially nikanunulia yeye pikipiki to manage. Let’s just say afadhali ningeingia amboseli na hiyo pesa and drown myself in poosie.
You can’t entirely hand over a functional investment to someone who wasn’t there during inception and doesn’t feel the pain of how the capital was obtained. Whether it’s wife or family member, wataharibu tu.
Nonetheless, it’s good to allow them to have some visibility either as an employee or with oversight so they can manage it, but you’re still 100% the main benefactor. The latter is more important should something arise and your temporarily/ permanently unavailable, they have an idea of how to manage & enable business continuity.
Open a business for your wife at your own peril. It is one of the dumbest things a man can do.
Kuoa bibi akuwe house wife ni tricky…that means utamfungulia biashara ndio asiombe pesa kila time…naonanga ukipata mwanamke mwenye already anahustle ako afadhali… because kama ako na biashara,what you will do ni kuboost business yake tu…kama ako job …ongeza yeye kitu kwa savings zake aanze investment anataka… otherwise you can’t compare such a lady na mwenye Hana chochote…eti the only thing she can bring to the table ni kuma tu:D
Said a man who is married to palmela
Shoste
Ma house wives ni balaa tupu. Kazi no muchene, kununua vitu ovyo zenye hata hazitumiki/hazina maana kiholela juu hajui uchungu ya kutafuta hio pesa, na kukula ovyo ovyo kila saa. Unapata mtu amenona anakaa 5years older than the hubby.
Fungulia bibi kazi hata kama ni kibanda ya mboga, awache kukaa na akili idle. Kumweka kwa biashara yako nayo inalingana ni mtu aina gani. Kama ni mwanamke kama wale wasepere wanaitanga ‘muramati indo’, na sio wa fujo za kishienzi, sawa, if not sahau kabisa. Coz if it’s the latter, hata ukichukua 5k ya kuenda kula mbuzi na peers itakua inaleta vurugu. Na usitake ona mwanamke akitaka ku compete na wewe on spending, juu she feels entitled to it coz she’s also a ‘director’…
This is the problem of marrying uneducated wives. Kama ni mwalimu, nurse, banker, etc hungekuwa na hii dilemma. Lakini ukioa garagaria utaishi na hizi dilemmas.
Depends if you went for fat or head
MGTOW= FREEDOM… can’t relate
Ukifungulia bibi biz mupatie responsibilities za nyumba alipe. Akikosa kulipa unaingia mkia bila lube
Kisha umlipe 150shs?!! Tomba chokosh wa oyole makanga na ulipe 150
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Follow your client’s advice. Women are like children. They need to be shown what to do, when to do, and how to do. Failure to that, they copy bad behaviors and bring them to your presence.
This is the best advice to watu Bado hatujaingia planteshen.
We shall now make informed decision when choosing the partner, when the right time comes
Honorable member kindly withdraw ur statement
That banker part didnt end well for Carolines husband
Kunguru ni kunguru hata akifanya kazi chapel ama auze mboga marigiti. You can’t use the few bad apples in every profession to disqualify everyone.
Na kama kunguru ni kunguru, you might as well choose one with some credentials hatakusumbua umuanzishie biashara.
Mwanamke anaweza kujenga ama akumalize. The same thing she will do to a business you have already set up before marriage. You can marry any lady whether employed or jobless. Bora tu usioe hawa: