Ama you developmed mommy issues after being abandoned as a kid. That’s why huonangi weaknesses za bibi yako.
Umesema ni masiste? Chuma chako ki motoni ![]()
Iko mtu atapewa xter development proper
Hehe, wacha atafute pesa, alisema the husband ni m-stingy na alikuwa tu mzuri waki date. Sahi anamkazia.
Yaani thread imegeuziwa @Yuletapeli tena. Anyway, vumbi in dating is part of life and woe unto guys wenye hawajai okotwa when they are younger.
Ati anafungua line ya simu ingine na ID ya khupipi yako? wewe hekaya inakungoja itakua monumental.
Kwa hivyo @Yuletapeli most likely anatapeliwa. Pwagu hupata pwaguzi.
How close is your wife to her sisters? Juu from what you have described inakaa wako close sana. Yet you think her sisters ni kungurus and have had zero impact on her in adulthood ![]()
Naona umeanza kunipiga mieleka, zi, sina mummy issues ![]()
Let’s assume hauna unresolved mummy issues for now. Na pole for what happened. I know it must have been a tough time in your life.
Wacha nikwambie tuu ukweli. Hakuna difference kubwa ya adults na watoto especially when they are in good terms. Mimi na bro yangu we are both 30+. We still have influence on each other’s decisions like we had when we were kids especially vitu kama investments and big purchases we will ask each others opinions etc.
My point is that if your wife is on good terms with her hardened kunguru sisters, it is foolhardy kuassume hawajamuinfluence over the years in any way. At the end of the day hao ni in-laws but kaa ritho.
…hehe, nishasema mara a thousand..I don’t trust women. Huwa najua anything can happen kwa hii dunia but mwanamke kunisumbua will never happen juu sita entertain hata kidogo. Na disconnect haraka sana. Thats my weakness.
Before you laugh at those two bros in law, look closer to home. Obviously hufai kujudge bibi based on what some random strangers on ktalk wrote. But jua her sisters can influence her negatively even in adulthood.
If you hang out frequently with two gangsters, you will become the third gangster. If you roll with two alcoholics frequently enough guess what, you become the third one etc etc. If I were you I would only be comfortable if anaonana na hao kunguru sisters less than 5 times a year. The closer she is to them, the more likely that she is like them kwa tabia.
@Yuletapeli is a bottom-feeding beta male and this posts confirms it. Anafikiria alioa malaika amd u can see how he pedastalizes his tired-looking wife
Niaje alpha meo
… hehe ile day nitaona red flag nitajua how to deal with it.
Mwaga ndani two years ago ulisema umepata kidosho na ukam post hapa, aliingia box ama aliona hataki ku date tajiri kama wewe ![]()
In General elders wish all the best for those who are in plantations …
That being said we are patiently waiting for @Yuletapeli to drop his personal hekaya just like the dude wa “kahippo” who’s wife joined a gym & it went downhill from there

Madem wa saloon wako hivyo bro, ulisema wako blessed na skills za kusuka nywele. That’s red flag number 1.
Hehe.
So skills za kusuka, close interaction na kunguru sisters na kupeana sister id for sim registration ni 3 red flags tayari.
A truck load of dust is quickly approaching.
As a true alpha mail (AMG) ningesema ujipange pia lakini nakumbuka wewe umeishi Koch na ulioa bibi akikua 16. sio kama @MikeOcksmal aliowa postwall chieth sahii aliwachwa