There was a time I told you about my sisters-in-law. Let me start with my wife’s older sister. Huyu mdada was married for seven years, but the marriage ended because her husband lost his job na mdada akawa ndio ana fanya kila kitu kejani. Meanwhile, she was drinking, smoking weed, and having affairs outside the marriage. Back then, she was stunning—light-skinned, curvy, and always dressed to impress. Nayo talanta ya kusukana huwa nayo (Note the husband aki m-date ndio alim-introduce kwa sherehe).
Juu ya urembo yake alidai wajaka huwa hawachi anapumua. After wamekatsiana, she became a single mother and had no place to stay, so she stayed at my house for a while yeye na daughter wake. Later, she met a guy from a wealthy family. Alidai kuna ka boy kako interested in her na wakona doo kwao (red flag nkaionea mbali).
Time ya Covid, they started living together, na mjamaa ameona dust. Asipoenda kanisa aokoke sijui. His wife barely stays home and has been missing since Friday. I know she’s probably with some other guy, enjoying life, because that’s what she loves. Ni kichwa ngumu pia. They’ve been married for kitu four years now, jamaa huwa tu analia lia. Juzi mjamaa akapiga simu, akiuliza kama wife yake amekam sides za kwetu. They have a child together ka boy. Jamaa ali date na aka marry mumama amemshinda kimiaka na 2 ama 3 years. Ndio alikuwa ame graduate pale USIU. Boy alikuwa trapped na mimba juu alikuwa amekatsika sana hio time vile ali learn juu walikam kwangu kutembea na kijana alikuwa ameboeka saidi.
Ile day nili meet mujamaa, I felt like telling him the truth about the mess he had gotten himself into—that he was going to suffer—but because she’s my sister-in-law, I kept quiet. Hapa nilitaka sana nimtumie ile book the rational male na others nika lenga tu, juu tulikuwa tushakuwa ma-beste na sipendi kuingilia ya wenyewe. Wacha a learn the hard way ikiwezekana. At the end of the day he is a man. Nilijiambia.
Now to my wife’s twin sister. Huyu kesi yake ni ngumu. Yeye ndio huwa ana exhibit masculine traits. Huwa ana date majamaa wako chini yake, yeye ndio ana wa manupilate, wanafanya vile anataka. Huwa namsho atafute watu wa maana.
Her husband is also having a tough time. She’s blocked him on everything, even her own mother-in-law, so no one can reach her. Mdada huwa na passwords kwa simu kwa kila app and the husband is okay ati aliambiwa simu ya bibi ni private. They had a wedding just last December, and I had to attend despite my reservations (sipendi ujinga ya harusi). I really wanted to tell the guy, “This woman is 30 years old; just walk away. Jipe shughuli tafuta dem mwingine but again aliona rangi na matako akaona hawezi wacha”. Sahi anavuna matunda yake kila siku. Bibi yake ni mkora sana kuna time hadi ali register line na na ID ya wife yangu na akashow jamaa ati akona deni ya sister yake. Juu jamaa hakutaka kumpea cash alikuwa anatuma kwa hio line akidhani ni ya wife bila kujua ni bibi yake ame register na ndio yuko nayo so alikuwa anamkula tu doo.
Juzi, alikuwa home akishukwa nywele, jana sunday walikuwa wana attend family gathering sides za kikuyu. Kwao wako gifted na ususi…mdada alikuwa ana brag that her husband goes to her workplace, only to find random men there—and she admitted those are her exes. It’s a sad situation for these guys, hawa watakuwa redpillers very soon. Mimi huwa cheki tu wakilia lia na washo wasijali. Otherwise naweza wambia fukuzeni hao hamtawezana…
Mbona nasema hii maneno sahi, nme realize wazee wakitambo walikuwa na akili sana, walijua kwa nini mwanamke alikuwa anawekwa cut-out (FGM) mapema.
Kila siku huwa naona cases that zina confirm misemo ya elders kuhusu marrying a woman past 25 years…mimi nmesema bibi aolewe akiwa anachezea hapa 18-21. Akianza ujinaga anagalau anakuwa amekupea her best years. Mdada ako past that age bracket tunawachia kina @Billy_Graham waandikiane poems.
