I have never put any importance to this day and I have never understood the logic behind it… While growing up I always saw my dad bring home flowers for mamma and he also bought us (his girls) something special… Now I don’t see what all the fuss is about this day.
Yesterday…
C: sasa girl
Me:poa
C:I miss you
Me:… No reply
C:uko free on Wednesday??
Me:yes..(I fucking said yes)… Tf, I couldn’t even remember its valentines day until I looked up and saw the calender…
C:Sawa babe al come pick you up tomorrow so that we can plan and talk about it some more…. Who do men think they are?? You think you can just pick up where you left off?? Smh!!
Me:k
C:sleep tight baby girl
Me:rolling my eyes…
How can I go on a date on valentines day with my ex who left things pending two years ago and haven’t had a proper conversation with since then?? Lakini nyinyi wanaume mnatubebanga ujinga Sana…
If you dated a dead beat doesn’t make all men deadbeats. And by the way men date using the tier system. If after two years he calls out of the blue you know what tier you are. And then there is this:
“…C:Sawa babe al come pick you up tomorrow so that we can plan and talk about it some more…. Whodo men think they are?? You think you can just pick up where you left off?? Smh!!
Me:k…”
If I had a bi.tch I could call after two years and she is ALWAYS game she would be my booty call during dry spells.
Umekubali uko free wed.
Si utapelekwa outing tu.
Na si utakula na kunywa.
Then mtree italala bahali yake.
Na mjamaa atasepa.
Na wewe utabaki ukiregret…
Valentine’s day had more meaning when we were teenagers. You get a big ass card,a teddy bear ( which never made sense to me) and a plastic red rose sprayed abundantly with cheap cologne.
Now, the florist mixes up the cards and an expensive bouquet of roses comes attached with a card that reads. "I wish I could be with you tonight…you have brought new meaning into my life"
And the other woman gets yours. "I treasure you, thank you for all the years we have spent together, for being the mother of our brilliant children etc etc.