Achana na huyo mtu. It will save you a lot of emotional pain in future. I always say if you are the only one fighting to save a relationship, then it’s probably not worth it. It is clear she doesn’t want to be with you.
Interesting, even the Talkers who act all exposed, traveled, open minded bla bla are still stuck deeeep inside their tribal cocoons. You’d think marriages between tribes mates are always rosy. Mimi if we’re courting and I so much as sense you’re not 100% committed to the relationship, for whatever reason, I will walk.
Lately there have been several high profile cases of Husbands murdering their wives in these intermarriages. Ask yourself why. If normal marriages with someone you speak the same language got tons and tons of issues, what happens when you add tribal differences in the mix? You will live forever on the edge all the while cautious not to do anything that might upset the delicate balance. Is that kind of life worth living?
FACT: msichana wa Centro akileta mwanaume mjaluo awe bwana she will be given two hot slaps by her parents bt the same msichana akileta mzungu mzee she will be hugged & praised by the peros
Even couples in same tribe marriages murder each other. If you are not compatible, your shared language or ethnic backgrounds will not solve that issue.
Enyewe @msalame grace hapa ametuangusha big time. I always say to succeed in this world you need a brave and strong willed heart. Otherwise you will be peoples steering wheel
Language is a non-issue. They will speak Swahili and English.
Culture? We live in a multi-cultural society. Diversity is what adds colour to life. If you are good at adapting to situations, once again, this is a non-issue.
So if I marry a Rwandese chic, I have to work harder at our relationship that if I marry a girl from my tribe? Warped thinking!
What about the Kiambu widowed landladies? Ama wale wakisii huchoma mabwana zao na maji moto? Violence between couples in same tribe marriages is common and there are many cases that are not reported in the media.
Dude, wake up and smell the coffee. Just leave that chic.
A chic once got pregnant. She was an undergrad student in Uni and apparently her student visa would get cancelled if she was found out. Told her in Europe, no one would condemn her. She didn’t want to hear. She’d come in as an au-pair so she was also scared of what her family would say. So, I paid Euro 600 for a ToP. Most stupid thing I have ever done in my life! Found out later that she had a white boyfriend who was paying for her Visa and upkeep. They had even come to Kenya together. I never spoke to her again.
while we are at it. How are Gikuyu-Meru unions viewed? do they normally face opposition? Not that I care about other peoples views but just wanna be prepared for any bullshit tht might come our way.
Mnasema hapa at I tribe is a non issue…while you are the same ones who cheer when luos, Kikuyus,luhyas, Somalis, Kisiis are labelled insulting names…it is that same guy who will come to marry your daughter after you have spent an enternity insulting their tribe