It’s important to respect the privacy and reputation of the woman that opens up to you or sleeps with you, while thinking you share the same aim of marriage and establishing a Halal family.
Too many men on KTALK are still children, and treat intimacy as a crime punishable by telling everyone “wangapi tumesalimiana?”.
What your woman shares with you is ONLY between the two of you.
[SIZE=7]Her honor is yours.[/SIZE]
You either make your decision and go ask her family for her hand, or end the relationship and delete all correspondence.
But you do not go telling everyone you did it dimwit
Sure mdau. But you do realise that most guys who pose that question here are promiscuous men not interested in having a formal family. The women they ask that question about, are prostitutes, not decent women one can think of settling down with.
I mean, when someone asks “Wangapi tumesalimiana” and everyone raises their hands with information regarding where these women reside, which club they “work” from bla bla si inakuwa tu obvious. Otherwise would one be looking for a decent woman at Good Hope ama Sabina Joy?
You make very good points. Personally I am about keeping such kind of matters under tabs. At the same time, I believe for a man to ask here about kusalimiana then he regards that woman in extremely low standards
Yeye ni mumaragori from vihiga county. Amekuwa akifanyia woria kazi for 10 years ya kuosha shop. Now he thinks he has mutated to be an Arab. Kazi ni kupaka nywele relaxer na kudye ndevu.