The society doesnt respect you kama huna Bibi na watoto even if you have money..Infact, kwa burial, the only thing valued is the wife and kids you left behind ..no one cares about your"birrions"
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Advantage ni “respect” from people who dont matter at all and will do nothing to help you in life or care about your family that they respect so much when you die or are struggling.
Na kuacha legacy (again, a family no one cares about) when you’re dust.
Only legit reason is social climbing or financial moves.
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Imagine that being the only reason.
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Mtoto muhimu, ndoa sio muhimu
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The only legit reason for having a family ni social support from them. Niliwaambia muende a public hospital men’s ward muangalie nani anashughulikia wanaume…99% of the time its the guy’s wife and children. This doesn’t mean its guaranteed. But when you are old and frail, you are better off if your wife and children use your assets to take care of you compared to strangers who aren’t emotionally and genetically invested. Family ni muhimu sana ukizeeka especially as a man. Family members support each other during times of need.
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Wewe endelea kufurahisha society.. my friend ukikufa unasaulika
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Aiii kwani lazima upate support na heshima ya watu.. be independant. Live life… vile unajiskia. Ni yako.
Remember hakuna kupitisha 80 years hii dunia… just live. Utasahaulika tu hata ukiishi kama king ama peasant.
Wakuingia planteshen.. ingia tu, wa kuwa bachela wewe kuwa tu.
Hakuna lingine.. we are here to pass time, tujiondoe. Usibebe stress.
Remember this is the first time unaishi kwa hii dunia.. fanya vile unataka. Hakuna kikombe.. just experience it vile inakam
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Those judgemental fokojembes attending your burial will be buried as well one day and none will be left to remember that you were an unmarried childless fellow.
Take comfort in that.
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How many widows have been disinherited after the breadwinner passes? Very many. Respect is for your assets and not your family (who will be left to wallow in poverty). Ask orphans how their relatives “respect” them.
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This is also never guaranteed, but life is about taking calculated risks.
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why should we care about respect from strangers?