Unfortunately most of it is in Gikuyu. Those who can translate bits and pieces please do.
There are so many lessons here for young men who want to have a meaningful relationship.
Do not marry a singo matha - you’ll just be a bridge (she actually uses that word).
Do not have a relationship with a dunder - atakuanika tuu siku moja.
Those single independent women - behind them is a male fool.
There’s no fool like a fool who worships a woman.
Etc etc.
Chirau Ali Mwakwere’s son, a senior manager at KPA now risks being sacked because this bitch couldn’t keep her mouth closed. At the very leas he’ll never talk again in the company of men, ile ridicule atapata.
I will unload this one right here, where most future victims of female machinations reside. Now, most men express shock when a young male saddles himself with a single mother, sometimes a second or third-degree single mother. For instance, Diamond surprised many when he hooked up with Zari, a mother of three, even though he Diamond could land any girl of his wish given his station in life. I will tell you what leads men to such unbelievable situations.
Many processes in life are automated, and only need a trigger or some initial condition to be fulfilled before they proceed to their conclusion without further intervention from the initiator. Let me give a more familiar analogy. You can decide whether to take alcohol but you don’t get to decide whether you will get drunk. After the initial action (drinking alcohol) is accomplished, the events that follow (getting drunk) are beyond the control of the drinker. Something similar happens with human relations. You can decide whether or not to get close to a woman but you cannot decide whether to fall in love. A man who gets close to a single mother will soon find himself falling in love, driven by forces he cannot control. The mistake happens when the man gets too close to the single mother in the first place. This explains why you will find a very eligible bachelor marrying a woman with several kids contrary to society expectations or the dictates of common sense.
If you want to avoid falling into this trap, keep your distance from single mothers, literally. Don’t let Satan deceive you that you can parachute to Karura at will. A single mother will squeeze you in a way that will make you defy your entire clan. The more the kids, the tighter the squeeze. What starts as a naughty adventure becomes a journey of many years with disastrous results. Leave single mothers to old geezers with nothing much left to lose.
I’ve watched that interview and that story is like a movie. Unbelievable that Makwere’s son, a senior manager at KPA, married a single mother with 4 kids whom “he met and fell in love kwa simu” after she sent a text to a wrong number that happened to be makwere Jnrs. The lady had entered one wrong digit kwa simu. The lady was struggling to raise her 4 kids in nairobi while the guy was in mombasa and the guy started supporting the lady even before they met. Then the guy lied to his parents that the 2 youngest kids were his. This must have been jujus sent by makwere snr’s enemies to mess his family.
Imagine Mwakwere and his wife will learn that those are not their real grandchildren from social media. This ain’t gonna end well…And KPA, will they want to be associated with a worker who did not even have a KCSE certificate? This is crazy…
I can never forget when a single mother once told me that I am worse than her baby daddy who forsake her at the time she needed him most. Mimi saa iyo ata sijamaliza 2 months kwa life ya uyo dem.
This mama aliangukia a fool. Nothing much here to talk about. I’m sure everyone around the guy already knows he is a fool generally in life and not shocked by this story. Maybe to you folks its a big surprise.
If you have a family and you have your lineup of ladies out there then you should know the rules by now. Out there is just lust and explorative sex. Not love and co-habitation. Be a proper sponsor. I’m a fan of everyone needs someone lakini don’t settle too low. Kenya is flowing with beauty everywhere why settle for less.
