I have learnt that, when folks offer to give a helping hand, things end up getting fcuked.
Both at work and outside work. So, why should people offer to give help, and then mess u up ?
because in most cases they have no clue what they are doing, if you want something done right, do it your self
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do we have enough context to give any meaningful help here?
its usually an investment. just in case they need a favor in return they oblige you to return it
Vile huyu jamaa amesema…people have personal interests when helping out…its upto you to discern the positive interests and the negative ones