So while I was still single I went to my insurance broker to handle some matters. At the reception was this very beautiful lady who excited me through her intellect and I quickly took her number. First I was surprised by how quick that happened, but I gave credit to my pick up lines and ease of making relationships.
So we began chatting thereafter and man, this lady checked all boxes, we were going on very well, I had even secured a pvssy date. She had promised me a time of my life. On the eve of the day while I was confirming that it would go down the following day, she sent me her photos, and she was deliberate to include her two kids, boy and girl. This got me by surprise coz I hadn’t seen it coming. She even cared to give some brief bios about them.
I pretended not to have been shocked by the new development, congratulated it for being a wonderful mom and the work she had done on them. While we were chatting she mentioned that the kids really needed a father’s love, she had noticed.
That morning while checking up on me she added the kids photos with “I wish I had just invited you home so that you come say hi to the kids, they are very social and am sure you guys will bond very fast. Mkijuana they will be asking me to call you and they tell you to bring them chocolate or yoghurt”. I had had enough by now, so I feigned an emergency at my old folks that meant I had to rush out of town to shags. I never resumed the conversation.
She came across as a very good woman, but beginning the game at 2-0 was not it. Did I mention she had sent me chats with their father where she was accusing him of not playing any part in the kids lives (I didn’t want to make judgements coz there are always three sides to a story). I don’t bash single mothers and this is not a post to go at them. What is the appropriate time to introduce kids in such kind of a relationship…assuming it’s a serious one?
All single mothers are are too willing, it is like you had taken a trip from earth before you met her!
Picture it this way, since you were young, women are very guarded. It is goes without saying therefore that if you happen to meet a very easy woman then there is a problem and you should stop and think.