What she said is very wrong, even if she means it–damn, especially if she means it! It’s tactless, and not funny at all. There are things that may be thought about privately, but they leave a deep wound once they are spoken, coz they cannot be taken back. She should bring it up casually during a happy moment (crucial), and apologize for speaking carelessly in his friend’s presence, then she’ll need to be intentional to show by her actions that she really doesn’t take him for granted.
Mtu akioa single mum huwa na muona mshenzi sana but nifanye aje, inasemekananga mimi huwa na very toxic advise za kupoteza watu na kuaharibu watu akili but mimi najijua am very realistic.
LIon heart hauna roho ya simba hata kidogo. At times huwa poa sana kuwa toxic, unapea shetani space to showcase the reason why God said “wewe hatuwezani”
Hapo alimkosea bwanake heshima–she was telling him he was the fool who got manipulated into marrying her just because she was desperate, not because she saw him as deserving respect, and not because she’s a good wife.
We are all different. Labda utamtwanga makofi, au upotee for 2 weeks akutafute mortuary zote, na mwingine atamnyamazia akatae kula nyumbani, na kumuignore mpaka aanze kuogopa, aje kuuliza kwani nilifanya nini? Pia kuna mtu ataenda alewe aje kukojolea frame ya mlango, na akiulizwa amwulize bibi, na wewe unakuwaga nani? You look familiar!
Man, that’s just contempt and the husband should just walk away.
Exactly
the horse bolted. ata akifanya nini the dude will not heal