The Rat Race : Is it the only model of life?

What is the rat race: You go to college, graduate, get an ideal job, work hard to get promotions to support your family before retiring. You could substitute owing a business for getting a job, for the sake of this argument. Always trying to beat others in what you do.

But it’s not the only model of life. All you are doing is paying for convenience.

Think about this. You and your wife bring home 120k a month ( 1.4m a year). You make 80k, she makes 40k, or vice versa. But you live in a home worth 4 m. That is about 3 years of your living wages. In simple terms, mathematically, you worked 3 straight years and put those earnings into building that house and nothing more. No contribution to any expense.

But what if you built that house yourself. Yeah I know you will argue that you can’t, because of aristocratic leftover mentality from the British colonialist. Ati you need an architect, or structural engineer or electricians services. But you can. Our grandfathers built their own homes. Yet when it came to stone structures, we stopped. Brick is made from the same soil they built their homes. @MachaaWaHadithi built his own house on Ktalk. Anyways, it won’t take you 3 years to build a house if you put up a wall every week ( yeah that slow) with your bare hands. It wont even take you a year. So, 2 years of your pay is a premium for convenience. Some will argue cost of materials, prerequisites a income from a job. But I will remind that bricks can be baked from clay. Which is free from the earth.

And when you start building everything, you will have goods and services to barter. True that nobody can can make everything, but cost for help is a small fraction of purchasing something wholesome.

I used the example of a house, but let it not limit your imagination. Yeah you bought a 2015 Demio from Japan for 1m, but what if you got a 2001 Toyota body and rebuilt a engine yourself. Most will argue they dont have the skills but you can advantage a time factor. Instead of a mechanics 12 hours, yours can be a week. And with school for your kids, you can always homeschool to preuniversity.

Theres people who have chosen to give up conveniences and comforts of the Rat Race. I havent seen one do it fully locally, but there are quite a number. Some live on the sea, some in remote reserves, some in frozen Tundras, but theres quite a number.

In fact what I have described above is what impales Africans from advancement. We have been taught that there’s only a certain way to do things. And only that way. And costs associated, are prohibiting factors to other ways.

tema jaba buda

This is thinking out of the box; I like it. It works in some situations.

Kweli kapsa the musungu gave us independence but is still colonizing our brain.

Ni kweli; but we allow it ourselves, even in the way we teach ourselves–mainly theories which don’t help us.
There are many things we can learn to do properly ourselves without having to pay for them. Observe, research, learn, get the right tools, take the needed precautions, and do the thing almost like a professional. Don’t get impatient and take short cuts, they’ll cost you.
In short, approach even simple tasks with focus and attention so you won’t need to repeat them or get someone to correct avoidable mistakes.
Baadhi ya wazungu wanafanya hivyo, but they give us the slave’s manual because that’s our comfort zone–we prefer being ignorant “bosses”.

That last bit of your thread is extra true.

hapo kwa hekaya nimefanya vitu mbili. The car section na bricks nilichoma 4000 of them. miti pia ilikua free ile imebaki ni kutafuta pesa ya kutomba blue eye

If vice versa is happening, you have bigger problems to worry about than the rat race. That marriage is on a ticking time bomb.

How long do you think a woman can stay in a marriage where she earns double what the man earns??

A weird take on capitalism by a mzungu ass kisser…

Kwanza the biggest one ni religion. Mpaka we have put it mandatory as part of CBC, you really wonder what is wrong with us Africans, despite all the information we are still showing CRE down our kids throat as part of an educational curriculum, religion should be taught at home

Halafu they also succeeded in ensuring we look down upon blue color jobs,  courses like carpentry, metal works or mechanic are looked down upon by many as a preserve of failures yet white man knows those are the courses that create manufacturing jobs .

:smiley:

The mzungu capitalists like Rockerfellers designed the education system to make sure the masses always depend on them for survival.

True spoken like a philosopher n thinker…

Nice one

A higher quality of life awaits anyone who can extricate himself from religion and associated superstition and he who can unlearn what formal schooling taught him and relearn life.