Young ladies please don’t put your parents through the harrowing experience of having to bury you after investing so much in you.
As you all know I don’t have children, I was also in the process but I changed my mind - a wise person as they say changes their mind, so my life is all about me,me,me and a few loved ones from my family of origin. Like sinanga stress bcz nafikiria tuu tumbo yangu. Even my health is way better than most women my age. However,the majority of people I know are parents and I can tell you that the level of self sacrifice involved in being a parent is herculean. A parent can stay hungry for their kid. Especially moms can even prostitute themselves for the sake of their kids.
So imagine ubebe ball, Karibu ukufe ukizaa, you go through all that rigors and process of raising a kid , nursery primary, secondary and I see the pride in a parent when their kid gets to campus, then they are killed by a man .
There’s no pain worse than a parent losing a child. It’s painful. I don’t even know how they survive. So please warembo think about your poor parents before uanze mambo ya wanaume.
Men are extremely dangerous people. Extremely! And many girls who are now dead learnt it too late. Add the manosphere teachings and it’s tantamount to suicide, relating to this radicalised, entitled woman hating and objectifying men. You say no to sex and manosphere tells him that if he doesn’t get to ferk you he’s a simp, so in the outrage he kills you, puts your body in a water tank, then when he realises the magnitude of what he’s done thanks to consuming toxic manosphere teachings and rhetoric that told him that he’s an alpha male and no woman should deny him sex, he runs home to his parents and confesses.
Please parents talk to your daughter before every semester and explain that she is no longer in the sheltered environment she’s been raised in. Thanks to the manosphere men have become demon possessed LITERALLY. I mean, if you have any discernment you can tell that this is a satanic cult. From the very pits of hell. Men of nowadays are very different. Very aggressive and violent.
So what to do, let’s focus on what we can control as women coz kutoa MTU cult is nearly impossible. SHAKAHOLA anybody?
So number 1, never ever be alone with any man, unless he’s your husband. At least we know 40% of femicide is by husbands, so you knew the risk you were taking.
Number 2 , avoid money and gifts from men. Men are extremely SELFISH people and are not people who just give out things like women,out of the goodness of their heart. They use gifts and money to buy you LITERALLY, so if you accept their money and gifts then you deny them sex or leave the relationship, they WILL kill you. Especially with all the rage the manosphere has created in men. Utakufa sis.
Number 3, have a small but effective weapon like a very sharp knife to protect yourself. We said aim for the jugular and run after stabbing him.
Number 4, avoid confrontation with men, be it a boyfriend or even just a male ‘friend’ which by the way don’t exist. These are just men who want to use you for sex masquerading as ‘friends’.
Number 5 avoid parties especially house parties, alcohol and being out at night. Don’t even take drinks or food from a man coz they drug women ALL the time, rape them and kill them to evade the law. Like it happens ALOT all over the world as well
Number 6 if you are getting unwanted sexual advances from a man who is infatuated with you and he doesn’t back down when you reject his advances. Involve the police, school administration and other authorities because this is stalking and it usually ends in murder. Even celebs are murdered all the time by obsessed fans. Giovanni anyone? So don’t take it lightly and think it will go away if you ignore it. It won’t! You will be murdered by your stalker
Number 7, most importantly just pray for God to keep your path from crossing with evil people of all genders and types because there’s only so much we can do to protect ourselves with all the evil that is out in the world especially targeting women and being fanned by toxic manosphere teachings.
Think about yourself, your life, your future career, the people who really love you unconditionally and have sacrificed everything for you to be where you are, your relationship with God and your happiness.
No man or relationship is worth your life unless you are dying for Jesus. Please let’s stop breaking our parents hearts by dying under tragic circumstances and prematurely. Parents are not meant to bury their children.
Btw regardless of your age and station in life, if you are a woman you are in danger of femicide coz kumedhoka. There’s too much rage and violence in men nowadays. Protect your life at all costs. Jipende mama.
RIP to all victims and may God strengthen and comfort their loved ones .
