Nikiwambia don’t build these Bonobos munanikasirikia. We jenga wanaume tuu. Mkulima mmoja walaji wengi. Once he makes it he uses you as a stepping stone to women who know their worth. Hakuna vyenye utakua na uchungu hivi if you never did anything for a man @Purple
‘Men and women’ are all Gods creatures and or creations.
Even when you don’t invest in a man in terms of emotional support or any support for that matter, you can be sure that you will feel hurt because of the time you invested in the relationship.
This is the risk you should be prepared to take when going into a relationship; that you could be betrayed.
It goes both ways. Some women will monkey branch, some men will radically change when they get rich etc.