There are alot of things in relationships & young marriages that honestly we dont know how to handle.
As a single man in no tangible relationship, an affair with an older married woman will mature me up. It will make me rougher, stronger and wiser. It will give the single man objectivity when selecting a wife. For this to work the relationship has to have long term ambitions. You should keep at it even in your 60s.
This arrangement will also be beneficial to the woman. She will feel appreciated and beautiful. She will be happier. She will have someone she can share the joys n worries with, whether real or imagined. She will own a stallion, that grinds and grinds her …till she archs her back to gymnastic proportions.
Her husband. Stupid mofo. Takataka. Umbwa koko. Matako …in brief, enemy numero uno.