When you go to live in the Coast, you will meet so many different types of people. Kuna sisi watu wa Bara, visiwani kuna wameru wengi, mainland wakamba, pande zingine wajaluo kuna mijikenda wakristo, mijikenda animists, waislamu wabanjuni, waarabu and the rest. Of course kuna wale hawana dini na pia wenye dini Yao ni mazinga ombwe. Ushirikina.
I was a regular visitor at these places bcz I liked that it wasn’t as urban as Mombasa and it was smaller and more intimate but as you know, when you are a visitor so much is hidden from you that you can only know as you continue.
I don’t blame Tecra at all bcz sio bure wanawake wanapenda wanaume wazee especially mwanaume amelea watoto wakawa watu wazima they’re very different from age mates, sababu wameona life. They are very patient, they are fatherly bcz sometimes they even treat you as their child. Ask any w who has dated like a widower 20 years older than her, they are so different from age mates and if they are genuine they even want to mentor you, watakwambia baby I will make you great. Wanakupa personised attention enye babako hawezi kukupa. Wakupatie advice. Do this. Don’t do this. Then they are usually free, they want you to meet with their kids and their parents, they are more into family than younger people. So it’s very easy to fall head over and they can manipulate you like nothing coz they understand everything. They understand what a woman your age wants. They have raised kids. They have been married they know psychology of women.
So it be a good experience or very bad. After some time you start realizing that this person is too controlling. He is not flexible. He has alot of things he is thinking about. He is worried about so many things. Basically he has alot of baggage. Meanwhile you all you want to do is just do what people with time and money and no kids or parents to worry about do. Take it easy and enjoy life. Most of the time a woman will go back to age mates to recapture the innocence of youth.
Now when you are mtu wa Bara in Coast, don’t date Coastarians unless you are sure ni watu wa dini and from good families bcz many Coastarians are looking for a jackpot in form of a man or a woman. Majority don’t see the need for school bcz they have the mindset of kupata mzungu and their life will be made.
Coastal people ni watu wema, wakarimu but hio culture of waiting for a wealthy mzungu is their undoing and majority of the role models are people who are married to wazungu or being sent for money from Europe or such kinds of passive things that don’t require alot of work. People assume Coastal people ni zuzu bcz of masomo but Hawa watu mtoto wa class 8, form 1 anajua like 7 foreign languages, anajua kitaliano, kibelgiji, kifarasa name it. Very brilliant people.
So kama saa hizi hakuna wazungu, mzungu sasa ni watu wa Bara. Before hawakua na haja nao but right now after terrorism and Corona, like TZ say wakenya wa Bara ndio wazungu.
So if you want to get into a relationship ukiwa Coast jaribu watu wa Bara, avoid mtu Hana bcz huko ukioa mtu you have to feed his or her entire extended family if you are more well to do than them.
Then huko ni kwa charms. Huko ndio experts wa love portions. If want ya kuenda na mzungu wako majuu, ukae huku akutumie pesa, or akuwe anakuja once in a year coz you are married already, akujenge, kila sector na mganga wake. When it’s high season huwa wana toka mikoa yote ya uchawi mkali and come with their brokers from all over to look for men and women who need matibabu. High level witchcraft from Sumba wanga. Kwanzaa once you make a mistake and have sex, there goes your soul into a bottle, you have given legal right to your life to witch doctors. Just keep distance and stay closer to God. Make sure you wake up between midnight and 3am to pray b4 mambo za Allahuakbar zianze interference in the spiritual realm. Marine spirits are real.
RIP Tecra. Nobody counseled her and warned her and probably she was not going to a strong church considering her mother is a 3rd wife and she worked at a brewery. Which is a very big sin. Anyway the judge is God, may He have mercy on her soul.