Walikuwa wameanza,sijui wamenyamazia wapi.walikuwa wameanza kupiga kelele…nani hao?you ask…
sasa skiza:
U see,whenever you hear of gender-based violence getting to the media,especially against women,jua ni business purely…The real violence against women rarely gets to the media…juu kwa ground resilience takes the day…mnapigana,mnavumiliana,mwishowe mnazoeana ama mnawachana.Wanawake huku chini kwa grassroot wanaumia…and the only time their plight is heard is when someone is benefiting from it…a third party mostly.
A colleague of ours usually jokes and says that if a woman from kibira goes to FIDA having bean beaten to pulp(by her husband) with her nose hanging out of her face,the first question asked is what the husband does for a living…if its a mjengo man,the woman is told “ndoa ni kuvumiliana”… “enda muongee na mzee mlee watoto hii maisha ni kusaidiana”….“usijali atabadilika tu”……and thats how she is dismissed…na kibahat mzuri watatoboa tu…[SIZE=1].ok maybe kamzee kakienda retirement if the wife is younger watamlipishia na watoto…but hiyo ni story for another day[/SIZE]
He also says that on the other hand,if an affluent-looking woman walks in FIDA and says philip moi just pointed his finger and raised his voice towards her,she is taken to their lounge,and guess who comes to attend to her…well,google judy thongori utaona…
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At the lounge,charges are drafted against the man,and on a good day court case can be opened that very afternoon…
Now,back to the keleles that had started to surface in the past few weeks.These NGOs wako na njaa pia…na donor lazma achoteh…so lazma narrative itengenezwe…kwa kutumia mbinu zote,kulipia airtime kwa tv news at primetime,kuenda lobbying kuchocha CAS mwangangi aiseme kwa briefing…social media etc…
Sasa ubaya ni ati donor sai wanaeka all their efforts zote kwa their home country kufight corona…so hakuna kakitu wanatuma kwa izo NGO…and of course hapa kwetu priority ni chai ya 10 million,kukomboa ambulance at 2.8m EACH,printing ya 7M[SIZE=1](juu govt press which should do that sikuizi ni choo pekee zimebaki kwa iyo building) [/SIZE][SIZE=4]so kitu kama pesa ya gender based violence sahau…Na kwasababu all these lobbying costs money na there’s none that they are getting,ni kama walirealize investment imechomeka…na sahii utakawia kabla uwaskie…i see it as a good thing coz even previously iyo doh never gets to the intended victims…[/SIZE]
[SIZE=1]THIS IS MY OPINION…MSINIITE PROPAGANDIST[/SIZE]