In campus I dated this chick on and off and never used to treat her well, coz I’m kind of a non spender. One time she got back at me by cheating on me due to my behavior ya cheapness, but I found out and left her but kept talking once in a while. Long story short I had lost my job for three months savings zikaisha, I had gotten a job in her town but I couldn’t afford rent there since I was dead broke. In our occasional talks she has offered to house me till my salary so mimi virago nkabeba hadi kwake.
1. Lemmi tell you what was eating me out was the shame, I coulnd't believe she even considered giving me a place to sleep despite my previous sins. She gave me three Couch cushions to sleep on the floor and her on her bed. Also aliniitisha all the money I had akasema ni yafood akaniachia fare to job pekee. (NB: Campus aliishi kwangu semester mzima rent free, na hakuwai lala kwa flour ama kununua food)
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The second thing is that I used to feel pain, that I was at her mercy, I had to please her every request till end month since I had no choice. I had to obey without suggestion and objection and that was killing me. Occasionally, alikuwa anakam na stress na kunisomea juu ya kitu kidogo kama kutumia maji more than half the bucket ya kuoga, yet maji ni mingi kwa tap. Everyday I felt like dying when I woke up to go to work.
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She had progressed and has all these assets (Couches, sound systems, 2 closets, etc) yet I had nothing, she now had two official boyfriends who called her every night. And send uber if they wonna meet. I didn’t have even a girlfriend . The closest feeling to what I used to feel is peeling skin with a knife then sewing it back.
LESSON 1: Never ask an ex for help, afadhali ulalage kwa bafu ya kanjo. End month itakuja tu, just be waiting.
LESSON 2: Is better to pretend you have money, ama pesa unayo ni vile imehata kidogo (WHILE THE TRUTH IS HAUNA HOPE YA PESA HATA KIDOGO) when you don’t have when dealing with women. Huwa inareduce matharau.
I finally managed to vacate from her premises near end month, matharau NA kusomewa kama mtoto ilikuwa ya kila aina, hence I DECIDED to make it dramatic … will tell you in another Hekaya
