The Double Standard is real ladies and it could get you killed

So this man who killed his MWK is not only married but has 5 children. So he killed his MWK bcz she refused to delete another man’s photo in her phone. I know alot of women who are 2nd wives or 1st wives of men who cheat or baby mama’s or MWK think that if the man has his cake and eat it aka his philandering or not leaving his wife for you then you as the wife, MWK, 20th wife are allowed to cheat infact some women go as far as to flaunt the other man to get the attention of the man that what a man can do a woman can do better.

Unfortunately only these white folk in swinging and polyandry or poly amorous relationships manage. Most men married or not are crazy jeolous. Even when it’s not serious, if you can’t hide your activities with other men, or if you want to leave the position of being a side dish, do it carefully, same for a wife who has been cheated on and wants out due to the man’s cheating.

This is a patriarchal society and men have an insane level of entitlement and lack of accountability. That’s why a man is married with 5 kids but you merely having a man’s photo is enough provocation to have the man chop off your breast, chop you up like onion.

The other thing men hate and or fear more than jail and death is accountability. Being accountable for making a woman pregnant and paying child support. Currently the highest cause of death among pg women in US is murder by boyfriend, divorced, married man they were mistress to and even husbands bcz they want to move on from their wives and kids and responsibilities like Chris Watts did.

Its good to understand men’s psychology so as to protect yourself from them. You should not play with someone as emotionally unstable and fragile as men. Unless you want to meet your Maker or want to commit suicide. If you love life handle these people how you handle toxic waste. It is so painful for you to come on the news for sleeping with a married man and him killing you bcz you met a guy who is not married and don’t want to be a MWK anymore .

This thing of dating a married man is putting out a welcome mat to the devil. If David a man after God’s heart killed a man so that he could inherit his wife and Herod snatched a wife from his own brother, I don’t know what else to expect with these people. To you it may be nothing but to them its a matter of life and death. These underestimation of men has led to many deaths. When you relate with a person who is 6 times stronger than you it would be in your best interests to be extremely vigilant especially of jeolousy. Worse yet you can become a collateral damage like Msandos gf. Till death do we part is real.

From Sharon Otieno to Velvine to this 25 yo it’s obvious that it’s never a good deal to be involved with married men. The way I see it is that if a man can cheat on his wife, what else isn’t he capable of? He’s capable of killing. Let’s be vigilant ladies hii Maisha ni tamu sana you can’t die at 25 bcz of a man, at only 25.Just avoid these people for your own security. Respect marriages especially when covenants are made before God. God takes it seriously even if you don’t and this is why even divorcees are no go Zones.

Malachi 2

13 And this second thing you do. You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, with weeping and groaning because he no longer regards the offering or accepts it with favor from your hand. 14 But you say, “Why does he not?” Because the Lord was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. 15 Did he not make them one, with a portion of the Spirit in their union?[f]And what was the one God[g] seeking?[h] Godly offspring. So guard yourselves[i] in your spirit, and let none of you be faithless to the wife of your youth.16 “For the man who does not love his wife but divorces her,[j] says the Lord, the God of Israel, covers[k] his garment with violence, says the Lord of hosts. So guard yourselves in your spirit, and do not be faithless.”

Birds of a feather, do flock together.