When it comes to qualities that attract the females people tend to underestimate the power of looks and/or physique in guys. Ask anyone and they’ll tell u it’s all about the shilling. While I agree with that, don’t discount looks. Infact all the guys who were players when young and broke used their looks. I think this is also what makes one a badboy. Since such guys get so much unwanted attention, they inevitably end up breaking many hearts.
Looks also are not dependent on upbringing, economic climate, surroundings and other such factors. Whether a good looking guy is from a poor background or from a dysfunctional home he’ll still get chicks. The problem with depending on intelligence and talents is that they are very dependent on external factors such as kind of school one goes to, economic situation of the country, stability of family. You can have the smarts to be succesful but your external environment messes u up. This phenomena is even more pronounced when one goes abroad. There everyone has a job so money doesn’t give a guy any advantage. Other qualities, such as a sense of humor, which may have helped u in ur home country don’t help u much abroad since those qualities require a context. Again it’s the physically attractive guy who’ll have an advantage in such a scenario.
The problem with looks is that it’s short-lived. But so many members of team mafisi have butchered girls with it.
Some people only look good in their teenage.
Some look good only in their twenties
Some people look good into their late forties and fifties. These are just attractive people right from infancy.
Looks = good
money = very good
looks + money = Excellent.
Women are just as shallow as men. I think being a good-looking man makes them more partial towards you. I’ve been lifting for the past three years and seem to have learnt how to dress better. I don’t get hit on directly, as in the overt take my panties off and ravish me right here and now kind, but I seem to be able to get most women to listen to me without a problem. Maybe it’s because I’m more mature and sure about myself these days or women my age are desperate to get married. What I’m saying is that with these “bad-boys” it’s more than looks. The only time a man can solely rely on his looks alone to get laid is if he’s a gay prostitute. That’s how I see it.
This is accurate. Good looks get women to listen to you. But you have got to show more than that.
Mimi niligundua that apart from natural looks. Dressing is a BIG plus. Nice CASUAL dress gets women to pay attention and even like you.
even if you are a millionaire or very good looking na uko zile za threadbare “material” trousers, worn second hand sneakers, faded base ball caps and nylon jackets utadharauliwa tu.
Alafu how you carry yourself. However, if you have a nice car on top of this you win hands down.
I have no idea whether I am good looking or not, but all the women I have ever met seem to think so. I think having good looks is a blessing and a curse, I have screwed almost every woman i have ever wanted,almost effortlessly. Women hit on you all the time the problem with that is that it kills your initiative to be in and to maintain relationships…The relationships that I been in was because the women walini kwamilia, The thing is most girls are intimidated by you, the few who want to date you often times see you as a toy, they just want to show you off to other women to bump up their self esteem. There is this mama I really, really like so when I opened up to her, she was like I will never date a cute guy I just want a normal guy I don’t want to spend my life worrying about the attention my man is receiving from other women.
Looks have helped me in my small side… See I sell clothes near a certain Uni… We’re about three guys selling the same type of stuff but chiqs always flock to my stand even when I have many customers and the other stands don’t have any… Or maybe it’s my customer service :D??? I don’t know