Is to not leave a lady when she does something that you should obviously have dumped her for. Hapo ndio heshima yake kwako inashuka below zero. Very soon dame ataanza kukudharau all the time, even in public. As an example, vile huyu mwanaume anaitwa Bahati, bibi yake ameleta drama kwa label yake hadi all his big signings kama Mr. Seed, David Wonder etc walitoka EMB wakaenda zao. Any man with a spine knows that if a woman ruins your business, you are supposed to DUMP her na sio tafadhali! Alafu maybe if she comes crawling back ndio unaeza kumdiscipline first and foremost (however you discipline women is up to you), make sure her stupid ego imeshuka, ndio sasa you take her back.
Lakini sasa vile huyu beta male anaitwa Bahati not only did he condone her business-breaking tantrums, lakini aliendelea kumdefend juu ya blind loyalty to the wife, niko sure kabla huu mwaka uishe, madharau zitakuwa zimeanza kwa hiyo relationship zitakuwa major.
Other examples of things you should obviously dump for are: kunyimwa punanideh (the most common thing that men don’t dump for), kupewa STD, kutusiwa na kitu huwezi badilisha etc etc
Hehehe young man, mambo ya wanawake ukikaa chini uanze kupiga hesabu utarukwa kichwa uanze Kuchunisha Majamaa Sukuma kama mimi…just ferk and dump this btches,wewe sio baba yake
Nice thread. I failed to dump a kunt for meeting her husband behind my back, another one for getting a secret Sim card and phone to be chatting with assholes and that was a fatal mistake. Ile matharau ilifuata was worse. I needed those experiences to grow balls. Saa hii I can’t forgive. That boy called bahati will end up in the same slums he came from because he has made silly mistakes. One mistake was adopting kids, second was marrying an older woman. Any African mom in her right senses can tell you that doing that can even earn you a curse. Hio haraka sijui ni ya nini. Kwanza angechoma picha na mascandal kiasi then get married. He is running his business the wrong way too. But who am I to judge? Soon I might be balls deep inside Diana. Tutatombea yeye bibi vibaya sana. He seems soft. He should toughen the ferk up.
Yeah, hapo you were very naive, some women just like men who mistreat them. They complain endlessly but they never leave such guys. It’s just weird if you think about it.
Ukifreestyle mambo ya relationships, you will simply end up mimicking your parents. Hopefully your parents were actually sane individuals with a healthy relationship
Watchman ghasia badala utafute pesa uhame slums chafu hizi ndio meffi umejaza kwa kichwa. Uko hapa discussing a boy half your age who is driving a W212 Mercedes E300 and lives in a leafy suburb then u wonder why you are still poor? Fwakin baboon! Panda Kenya mpya polepole bila kusumbua…chieth
Wherever u go in this world, if u cant master the money game, you’ll still remain a beta as far as we are concerned. Financial excellence is the hallmark of the leaders of the pack. Hama slums kwanza alafu ukuje hapa utupatie advice. Chieth.
There are married men who are always stressed during valentine, mother’s day, wife’s birthday, Christmas and New Year Eve, because if they can’t buy gifts or take their ladies for holidays then the ladies will be annoyed with them. Some will also be stressed when in a club late at around 8p.m! and they have not informed their wives.
When did men become slaves to their wives?
The best advice I was given by a mature lady that I will always repeat here is that, as long as you do what is right, don’t be stressed. Gifts and holidays should come from your heart and not under duress.