To increase your success chance, scroll far next to the sixth pages onwards huko. Those ones that are less likely reached. Huko utapata mali safi na bei fiti. Lakini hawa wenye profiles zao hukuwa on the first pages huweka prices zingine ridiculous na ukiangalia profile unacheka tu you wonder atakama yeye angekuwa wewe angelipa hizo pesa kweli kwa sura kama hiyo…?
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Check on photos. Ukiona account iko na photo moja achana nayo. Most likely hiyo hukuwa catfish… Hiyo ni ndume masquerading. Another thing here, some may upload just a single photo alafu they add images of cars, cities, pets etc etc… verdict, big CATFISH, don’t waste your time negotiating anything here. Shun profiles of these kind for your dear wallet.
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Punguza salamu nyingi ni useless. Hi, hey, hello, cutiee, Pretty… These are all nonsense. Be brief and straight to the point. Just write a 3 line paragraph putting all your issues hapo. State your budget and what you want kama ni sleepover ama the amount of hours you want to spend with her, when and at what time and where, whether ni kwako ama bnb. Ask here to respond with here phone number if intrested kama hataki she should ignore.
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You may not have alot of time to check on profiles one by one, coz it might be tedious, so wewe copy hiyo message to like 20 profiles zenye unaona zimecatch your eyes and wait for the response. Its a surebet out of 20 or so, huezi kosa like 7 phone numbers.
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After you receive the responses, go back to point number 1. Kama ako na picha moja just ignore her ata usiwaste your time contacting her coz 95% chance huyo ni catfish. Akikuuliza utume fare again IGNORE IGNORE!!! Mkora huyo. No matter how captivating the profile might seem, run my friend.
You filter them out from huko online. Catfish unawaignore, na you pick phone numbers za profiles zinakaa legit. First thing call the number, and confirm again if she’s okay with the deal you just proposed to her. If she’s okay go and check hiyo number whatsap. Text her and tell her you hope that yeye ndio huyo huyo mwenye ako kwa profile. If she confesses she’s the one, then ask her to send you photo ingine moja. NEVER EVER COMPLIMENT HER. Akikutumia picha dont compliment her ati ako mrembo, huyo ni malaya bana. Just reply with a simple “Okay” after confirming that indeed she’s the same person. Do the same to the rest on the contacts that you just fetched.
Next thing filter them out based on your preferences and expectations. Simply tell her what you want and how you want it. First agree akikuja akuwe anakuja akijua vitu zenye unapenda. Wale wasee wakupenda kulamba kama @cortedivoire kama huyo hataki kulambwa you filter her out. Wasee kama @MTINGIZA_KITANDA wanapenda petite, kama sio petite weka kando. @MatapikoMoto anapenda weusi wamatako kubwa, if she ain’t that, weka kando. Wale wa kupenda yellow yellow, black chocolate, dark, filter them out based on your likings.
Next ask her penye ako.If she’s far from you let her be the last person you’ll consider. Start by considering hao wenye wako karibu na wewe. Just keep in mind that the further she is, the less likely she’ll turn up. Akiwa mbali mnaeza agree alafu you cut off the rest then later on anakukol anakwambia she wont make it ati kesho, Hii hukuwa bullshit na amekuaribia coz already wale wengine uliwarusha alafu very late ndio huyu anasema hakuji, nkt!!! So at all times pea priority wale wenye wako karibu.
Again i insist, usiwahi tuma fare. Mwenye ako serious akuje na pesa zake. Usiwahi jiongezea extra budget ya food. Hiyo ni upuzi. Pesa mliagree ni ya kutombana pekee. Always call her and tell her akuje kama amekula, hapa ni kama anakuja sleepover. So for this reason always let her afike kitu around 9pm. Yenye atafika mpige shower muingie bed. NEVER EVER wine and dine a lanye. Walahi treat her like the malaya she is. The only thing anaezapata kwako maybe maji ya kukunywa. Food weka a big X. Ama fruits thats okay, me huwapea fruits. After ameingia kwa nyumba you’re seated you’re creating the rapport, me huwaserve fruits, tukule fruits tukicreate hiyo environment ya kukuwa pamoja.
Creating rapport hukuwa important, coz manzi akiingia kwa nyumba yako umelock doors kuna vile at first huwa anakuwa nervous kiasi. You can serve her whichever fruits uko nayo akule atulie ndio mwingie shower.
That’s all. Kama kuna yenye nimesahau I will add later. Then key unaezapeleka kwa kictchen uiweke pahali. Do that immediately ameingia kwa nyumba, bado ako nervous so haezi shikanisha rada yoyote.
Peleka kierehere huko kayole