Swali kwa fathers wote Hapa

Is it just me ama ni family men wote?

Tangu niwe na familia, nimejisahau sana. All I think of is them them them them. Mshahara ni poa Lakini kabla nijibuiye hata kitu naona kakitu ka mtoi nawacha yangu. Latest imekua hata medical. Na opt kwenda kwa chemist despite the fact that niko na policy (80:20) naona hiyo 20% ikiwa mob sana. Lakini mtoi akishikwa na joto kidogo, analipiwa taxi hadi Agakhan.

Despite having chapaa ya lunch, I opt to stay hungry and leave the cash home.

How did fathers who are here deal with this condition?

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You are a good daddy, kudos. Lakini usijiachilie sana , jichunge pia so you can be around long enough for their sake

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Last wkend I was read the riot actā€¦ ā€¦imebidi akili yangu irudi settings tena Za kuwa babaā€¦ .

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it is simpleā€¦start walking everyday, it works wonders!
I havenā€™t seen mine in years and I tell you Iā€™ve never been more at peace.

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You will die very soon waachwe bila wa kuwa shughulikia, though someone will pop up after you die na watakusahau haraka sana

it is not a condition and you should be proud of yourself. you will soon develop a system of balancing your needs with theirs. and when you have second thoughts also think the myriads of men who neglect their families and squander their fortunes on hoes, drink and gambling; putting their families on the precipice of lifeā€¦
ā€¦andā€¦take care of your health too; you and they need itā€¦

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You will do better if you give all your salary to your wife agawe. :cool:

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FOA OP donā€™t call it a condition. Sounds bad. Situation perhaps?
Halafu second. Pitia kwa ofisi ya chifu uchukue trophy ya dad of the year.
Third lazima ujipende kidogo. Stop skipping lunch.

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touche!

kwanza jipende,kama ile chakula iko inatosha mtu moja afadhali nikule watoto walale njaa

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Kuna kitu wanaita kukuna mahali unafikia alafu kukaliwa inaanzanga polepole kama Ku settiwa goalsā€¦ But what do I know

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Hapa umepiga point :D:D

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Lifes sacrificesā€¦
So that you can share a toothless grin with your equally toothless grandkidā€¦

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Thatā€™s great to be thinking alot about your kids but then again they will grow up soon start talking backing and being disobedient!
Point is any sacrifice you make, make it whole heartedly without any expectations do them as your duty provide as a role and out of loveā€¦as a true stoic i dare add they ā€˜mightā€™ grow up with total disregard to the sacrifices you made for them, keep that in mind.

So you Mean itā€™s not a strange thing nkiona shati poa ya 2300 then I remember I need to buy the deputy gafana or her Cec stuff, nasema wacha nikae na vest,
Ati tafta bila shati kula bila suruali

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balance, my friendā€¦

ile wimbo yenu ya kikuyu ā€˜ndaigire ndikaria thithino yeneā€™ huwa ina nijazz sana isipokuwa huwa sielewi yote juu mimi mgiriama kutoka rabai

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If you donā€™t love yourself, donā€™t expect the world to love youā€¦and that include your family. Self pity will also have a negative impact on your social life and that of your kids. Learn to love and appreciate yourself and the simple things in life, otherwise you will never know happiness.
A Greek musician once sung: ā€œmuthuuri riria wina mbia hihithia kanuthu ka nyama, onawee ugacokia mata, yuraga na kiria imeretieā€¦ā€
Loosely translated: ā€œmzee when you have some money, chomesha kanusu ule peke yako urudishie mwili shukraniā€.

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That is how it was meant to be. Making your family happy is a two way traffic because you also feel good. However you also should spoil yourself once in a while.

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Skipping lunch may actually help you live a long life. Tule tumzee hufikisha miaka karibu mia all have one thing in commonā€¦ they are all slender.