Tangu niwe na familia, nimejisahau sana. All I think of is them them them them. Mshahara ni poa Lakini kabla nijibuiye hata kitu naona kakitu ka mtoi nawacha yangu. Latest imekua hata medical. Na opt kwenda kwa chemist despite the fact that niko na policy (80:20) naona hiyo 20% ikiwa mob sana. Lakini mtoi akishikwa na joto kidogo, analipiwa taxi hadi Agakhan.
Despite having chapaa ya lunch, I opt to stay hungry and leave the cash home.
How did fathers who are here deal with this condition?
it is not a condition and you should be proud of yourself. you will soon develop a system of balancing your needs with theirs. and when you have second thoughts also think the myriads of men who neglect their families and squander their fortunes on hoes, drink and gambling; putting their families on the precipice of lifeā¦
ā¦andā¦take care of your health too; you and they need itā¦
FOA OP donāt call it a condition. Sounds bad. Situation perhaps?
Halafu second. Pitia kwa ofisi ya chifu uchukue trophy ya dad of the year.
Third lazima ujipende kidogo. Stop skipping lunch.
Thatās great to be thinking alot about your kids but then again they will grow up soon start talking backing and being disobedient!
Point is any sacrifice you make, make it whole heartedly without any expectations do them as your duty provide as a role and out of loveā¦as a true stoic i dare add they āmightā grow up with total disregard to the sacrifices you made for them, keep that in mind.
So you Mean itās not a strange thing nkiona shati poa ya 2300 then I remember I need to buy the deputy gafana or her Cec stuff, nasema wacha nikae na vest,
Ati tafta bila shati kula bila suruali
If you donāt love yourself, donāt expect the world to love youā¦and that include your family. Self pity will also have a negative impact on your social life and that of your kids. Learn to love and appreciate yourself and the simple things in life, otherwise you will never know happiness.
A Greek musician once sung: āmuthuuri riria wina mbia hihithia kanuthu ka nyama, onawee ugacokia mata, yuraga na kiria imeretieā¦ā
Loosely translated: āmzee when you have some money, chomesha kanusu ule peke yako urudishie mwili shukraniā.
That is how it was meant to be. Making your family happy is a two way traffic because you also feel good. However you also should spoil yourself once in a while.