I have a friend. The guy was seriously addicted to ferking ladies. He was on Tagged, tinder and Cupid. He also posted on craigslist looking for women. The guy at that time was earning close to 180k per month after tax. In the 3 years he worked, he never saved a coin…he lived in a bedsitter in Kahawa West, infested with kungunis. We would go there and give him advice and tell him to be smart, ladies will always be there. He never listened. He would show us the ladies he was sleeping with and they are KU, USIU chicks.
Anyway, the guy lost a job and for 1 year tukamwokolea mpaka food. The guy akaparara sana and he took over as the care taker of the plot. After 2 years of unemployment, the guy got a job majuu but was seconded in Kenya. He earns around 400k per month. This guy hataki story ya tagged, tinder ama nini. The guy saves and invests close to 300k each month, ati alisoma his lessons. So wanaume, lets invest then utafute the ladies. I plan on doing that after the lockdown.
Huwa nasema, if you have an addiction to pussy avoid alcohol at all costs… Pengine kidogo wine to marinate… But avoid alcohol. If he does, his pussy habit will be easy to maintain
Drunkedness is not your friend when interacting with “paid women/escorts”… If he can be a teetotaler, then he shouldn’t have a problem with saving money…
All sex is commerce after all. Just avoid alcohol and have a pussy schedule plus some extra-curricular hobbies to take away his mind of the poon…
I once got this advice from some sage ages ago though a variant of it. He told me ukienda out, amua kama hio ni Siku ya kutomba wanawake ama kunywa pombe. Never mix the two on one occasion. The few occasions I ignored this advice nikaenda kunywa then ended up with a woman or nikaenda kutombana then nikapitia kwa pombe nimebaki na regrets na premium tears.
He is the type of fools who used to pay ladies 20k … all in all, it’s cheaper to smash these cheap internet chics rather than keep a mpango wa kando bora bei isipite 1500 … if he used to earn 180k and he never saved even a coin, then nunu alikua ananunua kama gold… hii ni ile mijinga ya kulipiana rent
Read well. Employed abroad but seconded in Kenya. But you are very wise. Have a Bedsitter for kichinjio kando na main house. Kula vitu at 1500. Hata ukukula 4 per week it is very sustainable.
From experience you must be in control of such situations. Have a timetable ya kazi na ladies. Have a mancave, sparsely furnished itaokoa pesa ya Lodging. Then get good Kunguru for all night bonking ama all day esp weekend. Be very strict akule ndio aje kwako sio hoteli. Don’t be over friendly. Piga mali and then pay and dump.
Most idiots wanapeleka poko to coast afi no kula maisha.
A single man from 180K can save 130 comfortably and still live very well.
Kila mtiaji husoma na yake. I have a friend addicted to women. He has two Sim cards za Saf na moja huwa haikosi a minimum of 20K za kumangana. He is very successful and his addiction to sex doesn’t affect him.
With a salary of 180k, ata ukitaka kumangana every weekend in a decent brothel that offers massage and extras, with a minimum of 2k per weekend, that is 8k in a month… still sensible money ya kupigia mwili asante… blame that fool and his money …blame his alcohol addiction too
Old Habits Die hard, why invest then spend the later on women. Life does not revolve around Puthy. In as much as i echo your sentiments i digress. Once you are successful automatically you will have everything you yearn that makes you happy, be it Ladies as you put across.