Another symptom of pre25 stupidity is to continue loving someone who is clearly ruining your life. This is not love but an addiction you must break away from through sheer will power in the same manner an alcoholic must fight to get away from his bottle. Until you see it that way you’ll remin bound and waste all your useful years.
Hi Benjamin the message on pre 25 is powerful and has encouraged me to say what iam going through.
I’m 29 and I moved in with aguy when I got pregnant for him he lost a job and as a responsible loving woman all the bills became on me. which I did not complain then .luckily I got a job away from Nairobi moved out of the city I continued paying his bills as well despite having bills to pay the other side and taking care of the child too I took a loan 1million to set him a business so he can stop depending on me. and with a mind that he can support us as well… the issue is this guy doesn’t want to make things official 4years into the relationship and still calls me a girlfriend he stopped sending us money completely and the only thing Hecatres for is the child coz he only asks about the child and he has severally told me that he doesn’t want me…he is done with my dramas.he doesn’t take opinion from me and he terms it as disrespect and drama he is so irritable .the problem is I still love him respite all this but I’m Willing to leave him I need help